Pushy people demanding my address late at night?!

juju*63
Community Member
Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this. I agreed with a buyer to allow them to pick up an item tomorrow (Thursday). They have just called and texted me tonight (Wednesday) 9:15pm demanding my address and saying they are on the way. When advised that it is not a good time, they said they will wait until I give them the item. I now feel very uncomfortable. Just wondering how other people deal with this. Is there an unspoken decent hour for people to come?
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I have always been brought up with ethics of not going to other peoples houses after 9pm.

 

But besides if you are not comfortable with it, you shouldn't be pushed by anyone.

I personally would explain that you cannot complete the transaction until the arranged time tomorrow.