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Hi am interested in starting an ebay store - how many listings are the ideal number to start with
my sales are zero - what is happening 
This last two weeks I have had multiple buyers asking me about items not received. They have all been items sent as letters not parcel post. Fortunately all items have arrived it time but the slowness of the postage is quite significant. For example ...
I have a promotional discount for my listings - 20% for over $100 spend. I tried to invoice the buyer but could not add the discount. Does it happen in paypal when the buyer commits to buy? the buyer is asking me to apply the discount and I really do...
I would like a little advice and information please. A buyer stated they did not receive item ...I immediately panicked and sent another item. On reflection I think I should not have done this. (BY the way there was no tracking as a small item ) Shou...