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    <title>topic Re: Cat_mioux's new home in Community Spirit</title>
    <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/366209#M157756</link>
    <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Good news!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;I think you'll find the mediators will find you more than fair. In fact they'll probably think you've been beyond fair. I think they'll wonder how on earth you've not gone mad from this.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;It's hard to trust someone to have your babies. Even when it's their father. Maybe especially when it's their father and you know he's far from the perfect parent. I think the fall asleep at the wheel stuff is to scare you in all honesty. To make you want him there instead. I understand why you prefer it. But you have to see that he prefers it too for different reasons. And they really must stop.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Ultimately he loves that gorgeous wee girl too. He does not want harm to come to her. And his uselessness is a way for him to have access to you. He'll pull his socks up when he realises it won't work any more.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Be very honest with mediation about what you want. If you're not ok with overnight visits yet say so. If they believe you're being unreasonable they'll tell you and they'll explain why and they'll help you find a way to figure out how to make it work. They will not force anything on you. They really do work very hard to make arrangements both parties are comfortable with and are in the best interest of the child.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Me personally I never let my ex in my home. Not once. Not ever. I realise your wee girl is tiny but I don't think you'd be unreasonable to take the same stand with your ex. If he loses interest that quickly anyway then a visit elsewhere like a park or a McDonalds or whatever wouldn't be unreasonable. The problem with having him in your home is then where is your safe place? You deserve somewhere that you can feel safe.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 04 Apr 2013 16:04:43 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>bryony_girl_baby</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2013-04-04T16:04:43Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304659#M108828</link>
      <description>:^O</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:15:22 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304659#M108828</guid>
      <dc:creator>cat_mioux</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:15:22Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304666#M108831</link>
      <description>What's going on?&lt;BR /&gt;
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:^O</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:16:49 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304666#M108831</guid>
      <dc:creator>freddie*rooster</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:16:49Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304674#M108835</link>
      <description>I think we need a musical interlude...........&lt;BR /&gt;
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I GET KNOCKED DOWN&lt;BR /&gt;
BUT I GET UP AGAIN:^O&lt;BR /&gt;
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDkVQvhZx04&amp;amp;feature=related</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:18:26 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304674#M108835</guid>
      <dc:creator>soundcollector65</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:18:26Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304677#M108837</link>
      <description>Gee you have to be quick around here...Oh I like this, it's really nice, lots of floor cushions, incense,  hmmmmm can I smell coffee?  No?  Herbal tea?     It's Ok I bough my own sauvignon blanc....now I am just going to settle on that big black furry cushion over there....pushes another kitteh aside,   so where were we?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:18:43 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304677#M108837</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:18:43Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304682#M108840</link>
      <description>Cat I think they must be getting in through the catflaps:^O</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:19:28 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304682#M108840</guid>
      <dc:creator>soundcollector65</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:19:28Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304692#M108843</link>
      <description>its getting sillier and silliest</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:19:35 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304692#M108843</guid>
      <dc:creator>thequeenof</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:19:35Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304702#M108851</link>
      <description>Gee Cat, I heard you had some fancy statues around here?  Didya get rid of them?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:19:43 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304702#M108851</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:19:43Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304709#M108859</link>
      <description>I think so sound...perhaps some duct tape is inorder?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:20:49 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304709#M108859</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:20:49Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304712#M108862</link>
      <description>I wanna know why I am pink!!!!!!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:21:19 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304712#M108862</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:21:19Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304718#M108866</link>
      <description>What happened?&lt;BR /&gt;
I just posted on mioux thread and pooooof it's gone.&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;BR /&gt;
LOL, I better go to bed. Must be loosing my marbles. &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":face_with_open_mouth:"&gt;😮&lt;/span&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:22:10 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304718#M108866</guid>
      <dc:creator>lind9650</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:22:10Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304722#M108868</link>
      <description>Nah it's all good lind...come take a seat!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:23:33 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304722#M108868</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:23:33Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304725#M108870</link>
      <description>keeliclare, we're twins. Me too. I'm beginning to think my ex is stalking me and not liking what I say.;-)&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;BR /&gt;
Now tell us cat, what did happen to that hideous statue? I reckon a ceremonial smashing is in order.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:24:16 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304725#M108870</guid>
      <dc:creator>cynthecowgirl</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:24:16Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304761#M108881</link>
      <description>I reckon super glue it to the bonnet of his car</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:27:05 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304761#M108881</guid>
      <dc:creator>soundcollector65</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:27:05Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304770#M108888</link>
      <description>&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt; and see that little dog over there? &lt;BR /&gt;
Wello I used to know &lt;I&gt;someone&lt;/I&gt; who didn't like the thought of having a small dog and thought dogs should be outside all the time. &lt;BR /&gt;
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Well that little fella is tiny, hangs around inside with us, sleeps in my laundry and sometimes ON MY BED!!! So ]:):-p to you.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:27:41 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304770#M108888</guid>
      <dc:creator>cynthecowgirl</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:27:41Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304778#M108893</link>
      <description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;I reckon super glue it to the bonnet of his car&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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LOL...like a Rolls Royce emblem....bahahaha</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:28:35 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304778#M108893</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:28:35Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304784#M108897</link>
      <description>Exactly;-)</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:29:02 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304784#M108897</guid>
      <dc:creator>soundcollector65</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:29:02Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304790#M108902</link>
      <description>LOL cynthe...yep the same here.....except mine is not so tiny and I really am trying to persuade him his bed is more comfortable than mine!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:29:37 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304790#M108902</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:29:37Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304798#M108908</link>
      <description>Cat, I hesitate to give advice - as opposed to support - but I just have this gut feeling that telling the skanks husband - appealling thought the idea must be from your point of view - is not the way to go.&lt;BR /&gt;
There is an old Yorkshire saying, 'When in doubt, say nowt.' Once something has been said it cannot be unsaid and you have no way of foreseeing what the repercussions might be for him, his family or for yourself.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:29:58 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304798#M108908</guid>
      <dc:creator>the_great_she_elephant</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:29:58Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304803#M108912</link>
      <description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;I think we need a musical interlude........... &lt;BR /&gt;
 &lt;BR /&gt;
I GET KNOCKED DOWN &lt;BR /&gt;
BUT I GET UP AGAIN:^O &lt;BR /&gt;
 &lt;BR /&gt;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDkVQvhZx04&amp;amp;feature=related&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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:^O Playing it now.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Welcome to my new home. It is peaceful, rustic, soft textured cushions, low lighting, candles, warm furry kittehs purring (including me). I have coffee, tea, herbal and Bourbon &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:"&gt;😄&lt;/span&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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And no fugly statues!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:30:12 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304803#M108912</guid>
      <dc:creator>cat_mioux</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:30:12Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304808#M108916</link>
      <description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;Cat, I hesitate to give advice - as opposed to support - but I just have this gut feeling that telling the skanks husband - appealling thought the idea must be from your point of view - is not the way to go. &lt;BR /&gt;
There is an old Yorkshire saying, 'When in doubt, say nowt.' Once something has been said it cannot be unsaid and you have no way of foreseeing what the repercussions might be for him, his family or for yourself.&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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I agree with you lovely elephant. I couldn't live with myself. At least after all this over I can say I did so with integrity.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:31:41 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304808#M108916</guid>
      <dc:creator>cat_mioux</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:31:41Z</dc:date>
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