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    <title>topic Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors? in Community Spirit</title>
    <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/28426#M6521</link>
    <description>Yes I understand your needs stilleto, I really do. &lt;BR /&gt;
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So she may not be aboriginal.  &lt;BR /&gt;
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That she is also adopted makes it doubly difficult because she may not have any idea at all of where she came from originally.  She may only know her adopted family and that's no use to you.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Yes I understand you need to know and you need to pass on some information to the next generation, but if your mum doesn't know what her own history is other than she was adopted... there is little use expecting her to have the answers.&lt;BR /&gt;
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I am picking you are still fairly young.  You have the 'I want, no matter what' attitude still and that is not going to help you... sorry I don't mean that as a criticism, just a comment on the fact that it won't help you.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Yes, you are desperate, I understand that too.  One of the reasons I understand is that I had cancer some 12 years ago and lost both breasts.  At the time I had no idea that my in father's family, three of his siblings had died of cancer, and of the 8 cousins, 4 of us had had cancer and now I'm the only one left.  Maybe if I had been aware of this family trait I might have been more careful.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Okay, so with that door slammed shut in your face, you are going to have to pretend your mum is dead and try another way around the problem.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Where did she grow up?  &lt;BR /&gt;
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Do you adoptive parents have any ideas?  Have they told you their story of why they adopted you?&lt;BR /&gt;
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This is a detective story.  I would note all you do know about your past and the little you know about your mum and then join forces (gently) with your aunt and see what happens next.&lt;BR /&gt;
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What school did she go to?&lt;BR /&gt;
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What hospital were you born in?&lt;BR /&gt;
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Where?  Maybe she was living in the nearby suburbs.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Get to know her sister, you aunt more and see if you can both get her to recall more of her past.  She might not know she knows anything, but with just general talk over a cup of coffee it could trigger something.&lt;BR /&gt;
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This is going to be a long and difficult trip for you, but keep you mind open to the fact she may not be aboriginal and therefore there may be other resources you can open.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Keep in with us and if we come up with any more ideas we will let you know. &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":slightly_smiling_face:"&gt;🙂&lt;/span&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 23:32:41 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22814#M5303</link>
      <description>I have become adicted to Ancestry.com and am lucky enough that one side of my family can be researched way back into the dim times.&lt;BR /&gt;
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The other side has hit a brick wall and I have to wait until someone else in the world may have more information.&lt;BR /&gt;
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How is everyone else going?</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 08 May 2011 22:02:01 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22825#M5307</link>
      <description>Hubby and I did ours, well, are doing it, I don't think you ever finish, LOL  It can be such fun, especially when you hit a brick  wall, and a total stranger helps you out, you can make some ripper new friends too.  Hubby now emails a chap in England we thought was a cousin, turns out he wasn't, but what a great friend we found.&lt;BR /&gt;
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The most annoying bit for us was family hiding illegitimate births, re naming a new baby after one that had died, and funeral records that mispell names, that one can be so frustrating.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 08 May 2011 22:12:06 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-08T22:12:06Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22837#M5310</link>
      <description>Oh, forgot to say, find some Forums overseas, post the information you are after and you may get results.  Don't forget to post in America, the Mormons there hava a huge data base.....shades of 1984.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 08 May 2011 22:13:20 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-08T22:13:20Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22852#M5313</link>
      <description>I've researched both sides of my ancestry on the internet.&lt;BR /&gt;
I have filled in nearly all the names back to the point where they entered Australia - convicts and gold seekers on my mother's side and Cornish miners on my father's side.&lt;BR /&gt;
One day I might find a way to research the English roots past 1788.&lt;BR /&gt;
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I have also researched my children's ancestry on their mother's side, which is quite different and includes free settlers from German &amp;amp; Chinese roots, and an Aboriginal ancestor from the stolen generations.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Great fun.&lt;BR /&gt;
I have even found the original court documents for a couple of convict ancestors transported to Australia. One was for stealing 2 silver candlesticks and another was a customs officer who stole a roll of cloth from a ship he was meant to be inspecting.&lt;BR /&gt;
It was much easier to become an Aussie in those days.:-)</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 08 May 2011 22:36:55 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-08T22:36:55Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22860#M5318</link>
      <description>I am hugely into family history.&lt;BR /&gt;
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And I have got quite good at it.....I have done other peoples trees too......sometimes paying customers.....some times just because I like the challenge.&lt;BR /&gt;
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I have got quite a few good sites bookmarked.&lt;BR /&gt;
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But most of my research has been in the UK and Australia.&lt;BR /&gt;
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All convicts on my side of the family.......and not one in site on hubbys family.&lt;BR /&gt;
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I ahve had to fight for every little bit of information on my side.......and hubby's is a published book...............it isn't fair.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:44:39 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-09T00:44:39Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22867#M5320</link>
      <description>Hello,&lt;BR /&gt;
I'm a learner ,without a map and I tend to take the wrong leads and get lost often...lol&lt;BR /&gt;
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I wish they had written more carefully and spelt surnames correctly.It would make things much easier.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:49:16 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-09T00:49:16Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22876#M5323</link>
      <description>Do people think Ancestry is the best site?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:52:55 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22876#M5323</guid>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-09T00:52:55Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22886#M5326</link>
      <description>Iza...the best site if you are starting off is family search....it is a free site.&lt;BR /&gt;
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The first thing would be to get your parents wedding certificate....it should have the names of your grandparents on it.....and work your way back from there.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:54:19 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-09T00:54:19Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22893#M5329</link>
      <description>My Dad's sister found out that she wasn't his cousin but instead his sister via researching the family tree. She was able to go back to the 1600's but passed away before she got further.&lt;BR /&gt;
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I have a copy of where she got upto. We go back to the first fleets. On my ex's side his family goes back to a Great Great Great Grandfather who was transported for plotting high treason...he was to be hanged but got a last minute reprieve and landed here instead.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:55:27 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22893#M5329</guid>
      <dc:creator>everything*that*i*ever*wanted</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-05-09T00:55:27Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22901#M5332</link>
      <description>Ancestry is good.....but ther are other alternatives.....Findmy past is one.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Ancestry offers world access......but it can be expensive.....I have the Australian UK heritage pack for jsut over $200.....for a years membership.........and because I do so much reserch it is wll worth it for me.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:55:55 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>flashie*</dc:creator>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22911#M5335</link>
      <description>My Aunty did most of her research via the old fashioned way...she died about 12 years ago. She searched BD&amp;amp;M's, Electoral Rolls, Graveyards and word of mouth.&lt;BR /&gt;
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A friend of mine is researching her tree at the moment and has found the Graveyard Registries very helpful. They are also good as many families tended to be buried closeby and had descendents listed.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:57:23 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-09T00:57:23Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22921#M5338</link>
      <description>I have only been able to go back to the mid 1700's......illegitmacy put a full stop to going any further.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:57:37 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22929#M5341</link>
      <description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;I have only been able to go back to the mid 1700's......illegitmacy put a full stop to going any further.&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
And many early deaths and children with children became and issue in our's apparently. The mother died and the eldest daughter took over her position in more ways than one.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 00:59:03 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22938#M5343</link>
      <description>I have found a Bastardy Bond (don's slap me ....it is the proper name of them) for my Great x3 grandmother naming the father ......but he seems to have disappeared........I am most disappointed....he should have left a paper trail.....didn;t he know 250 years later I would be looking for him.:^O</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 01:01:30 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22950#M5346</link>
      <description>Thanks Flashie&lt;BR /&gt;
I'd never heard of free site .In some places I've gone back 4+ generations but hitting a few brick walls.&lt;BR /&gt;
I think that there were some name changes (and or misspelling/poorly written) &lt;BR /&gt;
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ie;recently I have have had someone (a cousin of some kind by the look of it,in the UK) contact me to tell me that a relo I have with the surname of 'Rutt' should be 'Bull'..we think it may have been poorly written on the marriage certificate a distant relo of mine has.So following that up again now but as a currently 'free member' i am restricted.&lt;BR /&gt;
So i'll try the free site</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 01:01:46 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22956#M5348</link>
      <description>I hope that the poor woman didn't have both surnames&lt;BR /&gt;
Rutt and&lt;BR /&gt;
Bull&lt;BR /&gt;
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LOL</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 01:05:42 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22966#M5351</link>
      <description>Iza...if you are happy to message me I will have a little look for you with any names you want me to have a look for.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 01:11:15 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Anyone-else-into-seeking-their-ancestors/m-p/22975#M5353</link>
      <description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;Iza...if you are happy to message me I will have a little look for you with any names you want me to have a look for.&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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Thankyou,That would be great Flashie,&lt;BR /&gt;
I'll haven't got a print out so i'll go and check the details online a bit later and message them to you.I'm trying (but not doing very well though.LOL) to get the housework done ATM.&lt;BR /&gt;
:-)</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 01:15:52 GMT</pubDate>
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      <description>Flashie,&lt;BR /&gt;
 i do have actually have that written down (as I should have it all written down).I Will message the details to you soon.&lt;BR /&gt;
Thankyou</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 01:18:47 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Re: Anyone else into seeking their ancestors?</title>
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      <description>I worked with a woman many years ago who was, on one side of her family descended from the First Fleeters and on the other side from Queen Victoria... she even had a strong resemblance to the Queen.&lt;BR /&gt;
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What you do have to watch if you find any royals or earls or wotnot is the American's desire to change dates and people so they can claim royalty.&lt;BR /&gt;
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They don't seem to understand that kings etc. were of small counties and hamlets not huge countries.&lt;BR /&gt;
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I came across the King of Dublin (not one of mine) Well, as you can imagine Dublin is a city and nowadays it probably has a mayor  ... same dif :^O&lt;BR /&gt;
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They tend to have eople migrating to the USA as early as 800 AD or little girls of 5 having babies or women in their 80s having babys... wrong wives or husbands...  &lt;BR /&gt;
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I have found it very tricky, but am helped by the amount of historical records that are available.&lt;BR /&gt;
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I have not been able to get into the Morman site, can anyone help me there?&lt;BR /&gt;
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Would love to crack my father's family as I think they originated in Scotland too and could easily have been related to my mother's family right back then.&lt;BR /&gt;
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The State Library in Sydney was a great help to me many years ago... and if you have convict relatives then you will find them in their archives&lt;BR /&gt;
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http://www.sl.nsw.gov.au/using/search/&lt;BR /&gt;
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Oh, another thing I learned.  Often and often the supposed 'crime' for sending someone out here was not really for the crime, but because they were young and strong and would be good breeding stock to build up the colony.  &lt;BR /&gt;
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It makes more sense than the 'loaf of bread' stories.. Yes they might have stolen something, but the motive was, once in judicial hands, they could be sent out here to swell our numbers.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 01:29:03 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2011-05-09T01:29:03Z</dc:date>
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