topic Re: Buyer Leaving Negative Feedback Call To Repentance in Selling

Buyer Leaving Negative Feedback Call To Repentance

the-fab-gift-shop — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 03:47:47 GMT

We just had a buyer leave negative and neutral feedback that we think unfair. She lied in her feedback regarding the colour of an item and in another positve feedback, she lied about the postage costs. The buyer did not contact us first, as Ebay suggests that buyers do, so there was no chance to discuss the situation, or to offer a refund, if she was not happy with her purchase. We then checked her feedback for other sellers, only to find out that she is doing this to alot of other sellers as well. In fact, this buyer finds fault with many of her transactions, so that even if she does leave positive feedback, her comments would still indicate that her ratings would be low ... We are not sure as to why this buyer is using Ebay to hurt people in this way. Perhaps she is just not happy, but then why keep shopping on Ebay? Wouldn't she be better off, just going to a store, where she could see the item before purchasing it, saving disappointment? Lying, however, is a different matter. As a Christian, I am obliged to forgive anyone who wrongs me and also to warn them, that if they do not repent of their lying, stealing etc., that they will find themselves in Hell for eternity.

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tstore — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 04:24:11 GMT

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putney32 — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 04:58:40 GMT

pathetic

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chuk_77 — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 05:34:50 GMT

but um.... its like this....nevermind

this could end badly

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janeababe — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 07:25:03 GMT

I had a look at the item picture in question, and to me, they look green and yellow. Not a uniformed colour of aqua, but having said that, it is possible it could be a monitor issue with colour quality and not the actual product at all.

I checked out her feedback. She has left a few neuts but that is spanned over the last 5 years. (since 2009) so really, she is not a serial neutral giver. Ive seen worse.
At the end of the day, it would be nice if all buyer emailed the seller with any issues, but they dont, so it is just something you will have to learn to deal with...sorry.

Your responses speak volumes about you though 😉 Perhaps you could work on that 🙂

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digital*ghost — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 07:29:25 GMT

What kind of gemstone are the red beads?

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the-fab-gift-shop — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 08:45:45 GMT

In regards to the AQUA beads, I think the important thing is that they are EXACTLY as photographed and described, so there can be no suprises for buyers. We've sold alot of these [I don't know why] perhaps the multi coloured crackle beads are hard to come buy and these are beads out of storage purchased some years ago now. In regards to serial feedback, ... she has more than a few neutrals ... there are negatives there as well [including for us] and if you read her positive feedbacks, there are also complaints in many of those as well, including for us again, which would mean low ratings for many sellers. For a score of only [83] her amount of negatives, neutrals and also negative comments in her posiive feedbacks appears extreme. Perhaps you've encountered worse.

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the-fab-gift-shop — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 09:06:35 GMT

Re: your quote, ... moral relativism will not hold up beyond this lifetime. 🙂

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*crikey*mate* — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 09:38:17 GMT

define Hell

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*crikey*mate* — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 09:38:48 GMT

please^^^^^

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the-fab-gift-shop — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 10:03:43 GMT

The 3 links that I had up would help you with that, but one of the people here complained, and so the Ebay moderator removed them, telling me that they were inappropriate to post on a selling forum. I disagree, but every closed community has its rules, in this case, rules that I was unaware of ... 🙂 I do not debate, but feel free to email me you want an answer and I will send them to you.

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retailtherapist_8 — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 10:07:07 GMT

As a Humanist I am not obliged or forced to agree forgive repent nor denounce anything or anyone. As a Humanist I forgive you for your post........

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phorum_junkie* — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 16:53:46 GMT

That neg would not have stopped me buying from you, the picture is very unclear and the buyer should probably have emailed you first if they were unsure about the exact shade, but your response would certainly have me hitting the back button, very unprofessional! Never use capitals and never resort to name calling in feedback as it just makes it look as if you are the one in the wrong regardless of the buyer's comment.

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tstore — Tue, 06 Aug 2013 23:28:23 GMT

My post was deleted after I said there was no need to get all religious on the forums. Yet it is okay to say people can go to eternal hell. Mind boggling.