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    <title>Question Difficult Buyer Problem in Selling on eBay</title>
    <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Selling-on-eBay/Difficult-Buyer-Problem/qaq-p/553178</link>
    <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi there,&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I recently sold an item to a Brand New Buyer who has given me nothing but grief!&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;-Her feedback at the time was&amp;nbsp;"0" but she paid immediately by PayPal, so I thought all was ok.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Then after a week a PayPal Dispute was opened for "Item not Received". I hadn't received any communication before this from the buyer but I was certain all would be ok after I had provided tracking information.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;BUT oh&amp;nbsp;no -&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Next the dispute was changed to "not as described". I knew I had sent the item in good order and I had checked it thoroughly but I couldn't prove it could I? So I agreed to refund her money on return of the item.( I would have done this if there had been earlier communication)&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;The returned item was not as I had sent it. It reeked of perfume and had obviously been worn. The other issues she complained about were non existant. Which I can't prove to PayPal, so she was refunded.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Now she refuses to cancel the transaction and has left me negative feedback - my first ever as a seller.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I have done everything I could to resolve the issue but she won't communicate at all with me.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I rang Ebay and they said that nothing can be done unless she agrees to change the feedback but she won't communicate with me!&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;They advised me to respond to the feedback left but how can I worn other sellers?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I'm devastated as I've never had a dispute lodged against me before.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I have great feedback of 1730 which means nothing in the scheme of things.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Can anyone advise me please?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Sorry if I sound a bit emotional - I'm very very unhappy! &lt;img id="smileysad" class="emoticon emoticon-smileysad" src="https://community.ebay.com.au/i/smilies/16x16_smiley-sad.png" alt="Smiley Sad" title="Smiley Sad" /&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 14 Jul 2013 07:14:38 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>grummiedeka</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2013-07-14T07:14:38Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Difficult Buyer Problem</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Selling-on-eBay/Difficult-Buyer-Problem/qaq-p/553178</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi there,&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I recently sold an item to a Brand New Buyer who has given me nothing but grief!&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;-Her feedback at the time was&amp;nbsp;"0" but she paid immediately by PayPal, so I thought all was ok.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Then after a week a PayPal Dispute was opened for "Item not Received". I hadn't received any communication before this from the buyer but I was certain all would be ok after I had provided tracking information.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;BUT oh&amp;nbsp;no -&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Next the dispute was changed to "not as described". I knew I had sent the item in good order and I had checked it thoroughly but I couldn't prove it could I? So I agreed to refund her money on return of the item.( I would have done this if there had been earlier communication)&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;The returned item was not as I had sent it. It reeked of perfume and had obviously been worn. The other issues she complained about were non existant. Which I can't prove to PayPal, so she was refunded.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Now she refuses to cancel the transaction and has left me negative feedback - my first ever as a seller.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I have done everything I could to resolve the issue but she won't communicate at all with me.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I rang Ebay and they said that nothing can be done unless she agrees to change the feedback but she won't communicate with me!&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;They advised me to respond to the feedback left but how can I worn other sellers?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I'm devastated as I've never had a dispute lodged against me before.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I have great feedback of 1730 which means nothing in the scheme of things.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Can anyone advise me please?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Sorry if I sound a bit emotional - I'm very very unhappy! &lt;img id="smileysad" class="emoticon emoticon-smileysad" src="https://community.ebay.com.au/i/smilies/16x16_smiley-sad.png" alt="Smiley Sad" title="Smiley Sad" /&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 14 Jul 2013 07:14:38 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Selling-on-eBay/Difficult-Buyer-Problem/qaq-p/553178</guid>
      <dc:creator>grummiedeka</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-07-14T07:14:38Z</dc:date>
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