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    <title>Question Advice re difficult buyer in Selling on eBay</title>
    <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Selling-on-eBay/Advice-re-difficult-buyer/qaq-p/2064402</link>
    <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi,&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Only just putting my toe back in the water selling after quite a big break - due to a couple of nasty experiences with buyers absuing the returns process. Now I regret trying again!&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;Would appreciate your advice on how best to proceed here:&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Sold a very high value sheer lace dress recenlty for not tht much - which is aboslutely fine.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Buyer contacted a bit upset because the slip was missing. It never came with a slip, &amp;nbsp;but because i didn't specifically say this in teh description and because it wasn't immediatley obvious from the photos, I offered a full refund.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Buyer changed mind, said she &amp;nbsp;would keep &amp;nbsp;the dress and left positive feedback.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Now nearly ONE MONTH&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;later, she has contacted me again to say she has discovered 2 very tiny areas of damage in the lace near the zip, and so wants a full refund including &amp;nbsp;return postage. She has already intiated &amp;nbsp;return through ebay, but says she "hopes we can work something out" &amp;nbsp;In her message she also says "&lt;SPAN&gt;I know I've already left positive feedback, however I didn't closely look at the dress.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;I can also change the feedback accordingly."&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Ordinarly -- as a return has been started - I would have thought I would have to bite the bullet. But given the length of time that has passed before the &amp;nbsp;supoosed damage was found, the fact that she has left positive feedback already and is indirectly threatening me with negative, does anyone with real experience think this is worth fighting?&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Would appreciate your advice.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Regards&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 03 Jun 2017 21:52:23 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>kittinkaboodle</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2017-06-03T21:52:23Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Advice re difficult buyer</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Selling-on-eBay/Advice-re-difficult-buyer/qaq-p/2064402</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hi,&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Only just putting my toe back in the water selling after quite a big break - due to a couple of nasty experiences with buyers absuing the returns process. Now I regret trying again!&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;Would appreciate your advice on how best to proceed here:&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Sold a very high value sheer lace dress recenlty for not tht much - which is aboslutely fine.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Buyer contacted a bit upset because the slip was missing. It never came with a slip, &amp;nbsp;but because i didn't specifically say this in teh description and because it wasn't immediatley obvious from the photos, I offered a full refund.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Buyer changed mind, said she &amp;nbsp;would keep &amp;nbsp;the dress and left positive feedback.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Now nearly ONE MONTH&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;later, she has contacted me again to say she has discovered 2 very tiny areas of damage in the lace near the zip, and so wants a full refund including &amp;nbsp;return postage. She has already intiated &amp;nbsp;return through ebay, but says she "hopes we can work something out" &amp;nbsp;In her message she also says "&lt;SPAN&gt;I know I've already left positive feedback, however I didn't closely look at the dress.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;I can also change the feedback accordingly."&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Ordinarly -- as a return has been started - I would have thought I would have to bite the bullet. But given the length of time that has passed before the &amp;nbsp;supoosed damage was found, the fact that she has left positive feedback already and is indirectly threatening me with negative, does anyone with real experience think this is worth fighting?&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Would appreciate your advice.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Regards&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 03 Jun 2017 21:52:23 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Selling-on-eBay/Advice-re-difficult-buyer/qaq-p/2064402</guid>
      <dc:creator>kittinkaboodle</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2017-06-03T21:52:23Z</dc:date>
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