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    <title>topic Re: Cat_mioux's new home in Community Spirit</title>
    <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/366223#M157766</link>
    <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Ok, here's my ten cents worth.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;I don't know how youve handled having him come and go in your home for this long. It would have done my head in long ago.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;My ex did it at the start too. I hated it. He would just waltz in as if he still belonged here and I'd be left hiding in my room until he went. Different seperation circumstances I now, but in the end, whilst it was technically still óur'house, he had stopped contributing anything to it. No mortgage, no bills, no child support, nothing.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Numerous people told me right from the start to change the locks. I was being the nice guy so I poo pooed their idea and didn't listen. My middle daughter wasn't talking to him and on one occassion she sat on one side of her bedroom door holding it shut whilst he pushed from the other side trying to open it. She was 14 at the time and he was 40, but she kept that door shut! One day I left her at home and went with my other two kids to go to the shops. On our return she told me she wished she'd come because she'd spent the whole time propped aginst her door scared dad would come back and try to talk to her again. That's when I realsied I did need to change the locks and have some sort of fixed visitation orders in place. There was no reason for us to be uncomfortable in our own home and I owed it to myself and my children to give us that peace and a safe place.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Best 300 bucks I ever spent. He still came to the house, but he had to knock and wait to be let but actually the kids started going out to him and he took them elsewhere, which was a lot more bearable.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;I know you love your bub Kylie, but when you think about it so does her dad and do you really, honestly think he would do anything to put her in harms way? Is there any reason why he can't take her to his place for a few hours/overnight. Why does he need to involve your kids in the visitations as well? They have no ties to him.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Take charge and take control. Empower yourself and get control back. Yu need to look out for your own best interests from now on so that you can make sure your daughters are being looked after too.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Fri, 05 Apr 2013 21:41:33 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>cynthecowgirl</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2013-04-05T21:41:33Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304659#M108828</link>
      <description>:^O</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:15:22 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304659#M108828</guid>
      <dc:creator>cat_mioux</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:15:22Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304666#M108831</link>
      <description>What's going on?&lt;BR /&gt;
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:^O</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:16:49 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304666#M108831</guid>
      <dc:creator>freddie*rooster</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:16:49Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304674#M108835</link>
      <description>I think we need a musical interlude...........&lt;BR /&gt;
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I GET KNOCKED DOWN&lt;BR /&gt;
BUT I GET UP AGAIN:^O&lt;BR /&gt;
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDkVQvhZx04&amp;amp;feature=related</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:18:26 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304674#M108835</guid>
      <dc:creator>soundcollector65</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:18:26Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304677#M108837</link>
      <description>Gee you have to be quick around here...Oh I like this, it's really nice, lots of floor cushions, incense,  hmmmmm can I smell coffee?  No?  Herbal tea?     It's Ok I bough my own sauvignon blanc....now I am just going to settle on that big black furry cushion over there....pushes another kitteh aside,   so where were we?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:18:43 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304677#M108837</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:18:43Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304682#M108840</link>
      <description>Cat I think they must be getting in through the catflaps:^O</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:19:28 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304682#M108840</guid>
      <dc:creator>soundcollector65</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:19:28Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304692#M108843</link>
      <description>its getting sillier and silliest</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:19:35 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304692#M108843</guid>
      <dc:creator>thequeenof</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:19:35Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304702#M108851</link>
      <description>Gee Cat, I heard you had some fancy statues around here?  Didya get rid of them?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:19:43 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304702#M108851</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:19:43Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304709#M108859</link>
      <description>I think so sound...perhaps some duct tape is inorder?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:20:49 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304709#M108859</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:20:49Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304712#M108862</link>
      <description>I wanna know why I am pink!!!!!!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:21:19 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304712#M108862</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:21:19Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304718#M108866</link>
      <description>What happened?&lt;BR /&gt;
I just posted on mioux thread and pooooof it's gone.&lt;BR /&gt;
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LOL, I better go to bed. Must be loosing my marbles. &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":face_with_open_mouth:"&gt;😮&lt;/span&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:22:10 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304718#M108866</guid>
      <dc:creator>lind9650</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:22:10Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304722#M108868</link>
      <description>Nah it's all good lind...come take a seat!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:23:33 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304722#M108868</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:23:33Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304725#M108870</link>
      <description>keeliclare, we're twins. Me too. I'm beginning to think my ex is stalking me and not liking what I say.;-)&lt;BR /&gt;
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Now tell us cat, what did happen to that hideous statue? I reckon a ceremonial smashing is in order.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:24:16 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304725#M108870</guid>
      <dc:creator>cynthecowgirl</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:24:16Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304761#M108881</link>
      <description>I reckon super glue it to the bonnet of his car</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:27:05 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304761#M108881</guid>
      <dc:creator>soundcollector65</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:27:05Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304770#M108888</link>
      <description>&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt;&amp;lt; and see that little dog over there? &lt;BR /&gt;
Wello I used to know &lt;I&gt;someone&lt;/I&gt; who didn't like the thought of having a small dog and thought dogs should be outside all the time. &lt;BR /&gt;
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Well that little fella is tiny, hangs around inside with us, sleeps in my laundry and sometimes ON MY BED!!! So ]:):-p to you.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:27:41 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304770#M108888</guid>
      <dc:creator>cynthecowgirl</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:27:41Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304778#M108893</link>
      <description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;I reckon super glue it to the bonnet of his car&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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LOL...like a Rolls Royce emblem....bahahaha</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:28:35 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304778#M108893</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:28:35Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304784#M108897</link>
      <description>Exactly;-)</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:29:02 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304784#M108897</guid>
      <dc:creator>soundcollector65</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:29:02Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304790#M108902</link>
      <description>LOL cynthe...yep the same here.....except mine is not so tiny and I really am trying to persuade him his bed is more comfortable than mine!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:29:37 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304790#M108902</guid>
      <dc:creator>keeliaclare</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:29:37Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304798#M108908</link>
      <description>Cat, I hesitate to give advice - as opposed to support - but I just have this gut feeling that telling the skanks husband - appealling thought the idea must be from your point of view - is not the way to go.&lt;BR /&gt;
There is an old Yorkshire saying, 'When in doubt, say nowt.' Once something has been said it cannot be unsaid and you have no way of foreseeing what the repercussions might be for him, his family or for yourself.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:29:58 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304798#M108908</guid>
      <dc:creator>the_great_she_elephant</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:29:58Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304803#M108912</link>
      <description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;I think we need a musical interlude........... &lt;BR /&gt;
 &lt;BR /&gt;
I GET KNOCKED DOWN &lt;BR /&gt;
BUT I GET UP AGAIN:^O &lt;BR /&gt;
 &lt;BR /&gt;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDkVQvhZx04&amp;amp;feature=related&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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:^O Playing it now.&lt;BR /&gt;
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Welcome to my new home. It is peaceful, rustic, soft textured cushions, low lighting, candles, warm furry kittehs purring (including me). I have coffee, tea, herbal and Bourbon &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:"&gt;😄&lt;/span&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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And no fugly statues!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:30:12 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304803#M108912</guid>
      <dc:creator>cat_mioux</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:30:12Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Cat_mioux's new home</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304808#M108916</link>
      <description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;Cat, I hesitate to give advice - as opposed to support - but I just have this gut feeling that telling the skanks husband - appealling thought the idea must be from your point of view - is not the way to go. &lt;BR /&gt;
There is an old Yorkshire saying, 'When in doubt, say nowt.' Once something has been said it cannot be unsaid and you have no way of foreseeing what the repercussions might be for him, his family or for yourself.&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
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I agree with you lovely elephant. I couldn't live with myself. At least after all this over I can say I did so with integrity.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 11:31:41 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/Cat-mioux-s-new-home/m-p/304808#M108916</guid>
      <dc:creator>cat_mioux</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2011-01-24T11:31:41Z</dc:date>
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