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    <title>topic Re: What are your thoughts in Community Spirit</title>
    <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/66470#M22408</link>
    <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;Dorts friend is 17 yr old young lady whose whole family attends a born again "handclapper" church. She has just finished yr 12 and has had a 43 yr old boyfriend (who is 6 months older than her step father) from the same church group (secretly) for 18months.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;The young lady had been sexually active with males around her age since 14 and after an unwanted pregnancy and subsequent termination was more or less imprisoned by her mother and stepfather after they found out and only&amp;nbsp;allowed unchaperoned&amp;nbsp; social interaction within the church group and disallowed most other social interaction.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;I have personally chaperoned my daughter and her on the few occasions since the faux pas and "lock in" that she was allowed to attend partys and was required by the parents to meet extremely strict guidelines and deadlines which allowed her during her final year of high school to interact with young people more her own age&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;.....seriously...&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;dort and her other friends refer to him as Pedo Pete and not one of them that I have spoken to can understand or condones/recognises the relationship... some of them are just plain scared of him&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;It is a seriously creepy sight being at a rave venue at 4 or 5am in the morning and seeing 300 kids/young adults under 25 and a ghandful of over 25s at the same venue pretending they are still kids.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;They have since been outed and the parents appear to condone and have helped propogate the relationship&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 20:11:16 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>colic2bullsgirlore</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2013-02-13T20:11:16Z</dc:date>
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      <title>What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62567#M20522</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;On a 21 year old woman dating a 15 year old boy,,,,,,,, its wrong isn't it.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 11:48:17 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62567#M20522</guid>
      <dc:creator>crystal**flake</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T11:48:17Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62582#M20528</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Depends on the couple really.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Lots of mature 15yo's. Lots of immature 21yo's. So maybe they are perfect for each other.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 11:52:15 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62582#M20528</guid>
      <dc:creator>i-need-a-martini</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T11:52:15Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62592#M20535</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Depends what they get up to when they are alone.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 11:53:42 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62592#M20535</guid>
      <dc:creator>cherry*135</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T11:53:42Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62609#M20543</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Depends on a lot of things&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 11:54:54 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62609#M20543</guid>
      <dc:creator>latina4621</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T11:54:54Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62618#M20548</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;hi crystal&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;yep its wrong&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;if there is sox involved&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;he is underage ,and she could be charged !&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 11:55:50 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62618#M20548</guid>
      <dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T11:55:50Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62636#M20558</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Flannie, so agree!&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 11:57:31 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62636#M20558</guid>
      <dc:creator>crystal**flake</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T11:57:31Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62645#M20564</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;* dating*&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 12:00:13 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62645#M20564</guid>
      <dc:creator>poddster</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T12:00:13Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62657#M20570</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;tating:^O&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 12:00:47 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62657#M20570</guid>
      <dc:creator>cherry*135</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T12:00:47Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62668#M20576</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;if she was 26 and he was 20, would you still have a problem with it?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;If the BOY was 21 and it was the girl who was 15, would it still be wrong?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 15:26:37 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62668#M20576</guid>
      <dc:creator>janeababe</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T15:26:37Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62681#M20584</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Is the age of consent 16 in NSW for boys?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Depends if they are dating or "dating" I guess but a 21 yo should know better or either she is immature or he is mature...... either way it could be psychologically damaging for a 15 yo.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 21:11:59 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62681#M20584</guid>
      <dc:creator>azureline**</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T21:11:59Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62711#M20600</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Never happened to me-----mumble mumble..............................Richo.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 21:21:10 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62711#M20600</guid>
      <dc:creator>serendipityricho</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T21:21:10Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62726#M20609</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;http://www.aifs.gov.au/nch/pubs/sheets/rs12/rs12.html&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Australian legal definitions: When is a child in need of protection?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;what does going out involve in that case Crystal?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;I would say that it is wrong ?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 21:36:55 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62726#M20609</guid>
      <dc:creator>izabsmiling</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T21:36:55Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62737#M20614</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;wrong.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;No question about it.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;wrong&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 21:39:21 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62737#M20614</guid>
      <dc:creator>daydream**believer</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T21:39:21Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62753#M20625</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;It's against the law for starters, age of consent.&amp;nbsp; See here for state laws http://www.aifs.gov.au/cfca/pubs/factsheets/a142090/index.html&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;In some states being 2 years older is also an issue.&amp;nbsp; Seriously a 21 yo and a 15 yo, one has to ask what is he/she sees in a child.&amp;nbsp; It predatory behavior and anyone with an ounce of common sense and maturity will see it as that.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 21:50:55 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62753#M20625</guid>
      <dc:creator>bella_again</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T21:50:55Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62766#M20632</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;one of the drawbacks of being a cougar at 21 - you have to go after children, which makes you a pedophile...&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;damn straight its wrong.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 22:04:18 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62766#M20632</guid>
      <dc:creator>*pepe</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T22:04:18Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62779#M20638</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;parents or care givers have a duty to protect their children .If they put them at risk of abuse or ignore abuse, fail to protect them from harm they are being neglectful .&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 22:09:57 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62779#M20638</guid>
      <dc:creator>izabsmiling</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T22:09:57Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62793#M20645</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Never happened to me-----mumble mumble..............................Richo.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Poor you, looks like I was lucky.&amp;nbsp;]:)&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 22:23:09 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62793#M20645</guid>
      <dc:creator>the_hawk*</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T22:23:09Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62802#M20650</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;You went out with a 15 year old when you were 21?&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 22:24:49 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62802#M20650</guid>
      <dc:creator>izabsmiling</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T22:24:49Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62816#M20657</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;TABLE border="1"&gt;&lt;TBODY&gt;&lt;TR&gt;&lt;TD&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;if she was 26 and he was 20, would you still have a problem with it?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&lt;EM&gt;If the BOY was 21 and it was the girl who was 15, would it still be wrong?&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/TD&gt;&lt;/TR&gt;&lt;/TBODY&gt;&lt;/TABLE&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;Its different that way around,&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;males are different and for many a 15 or 16 yo boy its their wildest dream come true &lt;span class="lia-unicode-emoji" title=":winking_face:"&gt;😉&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt;
&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 22:26:14 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62816#M20657</guid>
      <dc:creator>the_hawk*</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T22:26:14Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: What are your thoughts</title>
      <link>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62830#M20665</link>
      <description>&lt;P class="mce-p"&gt;It may be Hawk, however thinking and looking at it from an adults perspective it isn't OK.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 22:30:59 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://community.ebay.com.au/t5/Community-Spirit/What-are-your-thoughts/m-p/62830#M20665</guid>
      <dc:creator>izabsmiling</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2013-02-11T22:30:59Z</dc:date>
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