topic Re: Divorce in Community Spirit

Divorce

dynogrl — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 01:09:33 GMT

Not sure if anyone remembers..... thought I'd do an update anyway.

I haven't been on the boards for a long while, just a lurk or two everynow and then...

I ended my 24 year marriage June last year and finally had my divorce granted last week....less than a month and it will be absolute!

It's been a hard 16 months but I finally got here and couldn't be happier...can't say the same for the ex LOL, he's a sad sorry mess that isn't working and is homeless

Re: Divorce

kengillard — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 01:34:58 GMT

sorry to hear that......don't feel TOO sorry for him tho....

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dynogrl — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 01:40:16 GMT

Don't be sorry. I'm not...I'm the happiest I've ever been!

Rest assured there is no pity party from me for the ex...he has enough pity for himself LOL

It's my teenage girls that I feel sorry for.... they have to deal with a dead beat Dad that lives in his car at the local Maccas

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cherry*135 — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 01:51:01 GMT

It is good that you are happy now.

It is a shame for the girls their Dad can't get himself together and be a functional member of society.

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poddster — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 01:54:37 GMT

Wouldn't it have been better to keep your and your girls private life private?

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dynogrl — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 01:56:51 GMT

Don't see why, none of you know who I or my daughters are, so can't see the relevance. LOL

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cherry*135 — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 01:58:24 GMT

No one knows who they are in real life? OP hasn't done anything shameful or have anything to hide.

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dynogrl — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 02:00:52 GMT

Did I post their names, pics, DOB, location? Nup..... it was a general post. Boy this place never changes.

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freshwater-2 — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 02:06:36 GMT

The beginning of a new life for you and your gels, Dyno.......way to go.

I remember your old posts so well.

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dynogrl — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 02:09:34 GMT

Yes a new life ... I've even got a new fella, it's very new though, not sure where it will go if anywhere!

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freshwater-2 — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 03:06:25 GMT

It doesn't necessarily need to go anywhere, Dyno.

Just enjoy the experience. There willl be others lining up too......it is all about the Two L's.....lust and laundry.

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*pepe — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 03:45:02 GMT

you seem almost gleeful that your kids dad is not doing well.

that's pretty sad.

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dynogrl — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 03:49:12 GMT

I'm not gleeful he's not doing well, but I'm not sad for him. He put us through hell and is still doing it to our kids...... I hope he gets his life together but won't hold my breath. Try not to read too much between the lines Pepe....... you have no idea

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*pepe — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 04:35:00 GMT

i commented on the words you have posted here and in the past, not between any lines.

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dynogrl — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 04:42:44 GMT

My apologies, I was unaware you knew my thoughts better than I do... I must be a sad little woman then, best I pull my head in

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freakiness — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 05:01:50 GMT

@dynogrl wrote:
I'm not gleeful he's not doing well, but I'm not sad for him. He put us through hell and is still doing it to our kids...... I hope he gets his life together but won't hold my breath. Try not to read too much between the lines Pepe....... you have no idea

It's a shame he's being such a knucklehead over things still. Obviously he cares little about the hurt he must be causing his daughters by his public display of becoming the local bag man.

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cherry*135 — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 05:11:27 GMT

I would assume the ex was riding on the back of the OP (who looked after the family, home & worked) for most of his adult life.. time to sort himself out.

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dynogrl — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 05:25:54 GMT

The moment I withdrew support he spiraled into the mess he is now..... sad sad creature!

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freddie*rooster — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 05:39:30 GMT

Good to hear you're doing so well Dyno, but, I do feel sorry for your OH, it's sad to hear such a sad situation for him.

He has mental illness, is that right? Does have an addiction as well?

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newstart2380 — Mon, 04 Nov 2013 06:54:31 GMT

@dynogrl wrote:
Don't be sorry. I'm not...I'm the happiest I've ever been!
Rest assured there is no pity party from me for the ex...he has enough pity for himself LOL
It's my teenage girls that I feel sorry for.... they have to deal with a dead beat Dad that lives in his car at the local Maccas

Girl power, I am happy you are happy. who needs a man forever ?

I think women should be like the black widow spider, get it on and then eat him LOL.