topic Re: Rules Check in Community Spirit

Rules Check

donnashuggy — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:14:57 GMT

If people are idiots are you allowed to say so?

It seems you can say lots of things about people that are ok, I was just wondering if idiot was one of them?

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j*oono — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:17:26 GMT

No. I think you can say idjit though.

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amber-eyed-girl — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:18:02 GMT

Wouldn't it be better to ask a mod that?

send one a PM 🙂

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donnashuggy — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:19:44 GMT

I am scared of them amber, it causes me immense anxiety and I don't feel they understand me 😞

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amber-eyed-girl — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:24:08 GMT

Ahhh. OK.

underbat seems pretty nice if you change your mind 🙂

just might be safer to really know, you know?

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boris1gary — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:24:28 GMT

@donnashuggy wrote:
If people are idiots are you allowed to say so?

It seems you can say lots of things about people that are ok, I was just wondering if idiot was one of them?

No don't think you are donna, can't say anything that may "hurt" someone's feelings. So no - i wouldn't even suggest that someone isn't good at playing anything, or anything about being sensible or not, or really anything that can be interpreted in any way "hurtful" - i think, maybe........it's better to not refer to any idiots, not that there are any.

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*crikey*mate* — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:24:56 GMT

use smaller words

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amber-eyed-girl — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:26:24 GMT

There is a smaller word. It starts with an A. Not sure you could use that one either.

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*crikey*mate* — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:26:49 GMT

@amber-eyed-girl wrote:
Ahhh. OK.

underbat seems pretty nice if you change your mind 🙂

just might be safer to really know, you know?

well see now you've gone and hurt all the other mods' feelings by implying that they're not nice.

Re: Rules Check

donnashuggy — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:27:04 GMT

Boris, you sound experienced, one of the mods hurt my feelings, where do I go from here?

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*crikey*mate* — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:27:35 GMT

@amber-eyed-girl wrote:
There is a smaller word. It starts with an A. Not sure you could use that one either.

i meant when messaging the mods.

Donna said she felt that they didn't understand her.

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*crikey*mate* — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:28:06 GMT

@donnashuggy wrote:
Boris, you sound experienced, one of the mods hurt my feelings, where do I go from here?

what'd they say?

Re: Rules Check

donnashuggy — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:29:12 GMT

It was a long time ago crikey but I am still scarred 😞

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*crikey*mate* — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:31:50 GMT

meh, toughen up

it's just a game, they just tell you what they think will keep you in line.

go orn, send a PM, be brave -

knowing is better than not knowing.

Re: Rules Check

the_hawk* — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:33:01 GMT

You need one of these, I laughed when I first saw it.

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amber-eyed-girl — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:34:25 GMT

They might all be nice...I have not spoken with any others. That is all that means.

bought that Camry yet?

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nevynreally — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:34:50 GMT

@the_hawk* wrote:
You need one of these, I laughed when I first saw it.

I'd like to agree with this post, but it will probably be removed anyway, so I won't.

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boris1gary — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:35:20 GMT

@donnashuggy wrote:
Boris, you sound experienced, one of the mods hurt my feelings, where do I go from here?

no donna, not experienced at all, am hopeless at the whole thing - posts that are directed at me and are "interpersonal" i just giggle - yet I have had holiday's over things that to me are totally trivial in the scheme of "interpersonal disputes". Don't worry about it, when you see others fishing ignore the bait - don't respond to the one fishing - respond to a friendly post, or start a new thread.

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*crikey*mate* — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:36:17 GMT

@amber-eyed-girl wrote:
They might all be nice...I have not spoken with any others. That is all that means.

bought that Camry yet?

nope - mid life crisis still in full swing - LOLOL

Re: Rules Check

donnashuggy — Sun, 16 Feb 2014 10:36:19 GMT

ibis always made me laugh even though we had different views and I sometimes made jokes

I was highly offended at the accusation of trolling, not by him mind you

having said that the moderators have a tough job at the best of times and I would never beg or crawl to anyone

they just got it wrong and they will again so i feel safer in my shell than writing to a stranger that cannot see the dynamics