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So my neighbour is dead.......

grant_1968 — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:24:29 GMT

And thats ok i really dont like him.......AT ALL. My husband and I have been waiting for this moment for many years. He & his wife have made us very miserable.

His funeral was on Wednesday. We may have joked about turning up in fiesta gear clacking canasta's. I may have even had a dash of vodka with my evening meal to celebrate his life and to also celebrate the shed application that happened to coincide with the week of his death.

However something last night unsettled me and I would like to your advice on. At around 2am this morning i awoke (well actually i was dreaming but i was in my bed if that makes sense) I could hear my neighbour talking and he was muttering how much he hates cats and that he was going to poison them. Even in death is this guy still going to keep giving me the **bleep**s?! Any spooky dooky people out there that can advise me on dealing with a dead neighbour cat controller? Whilst I'm not an overly spiritual person I KNOW IT WAS HIM!

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freddie*rooster — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:27:19 GMT

I would suggest if you have cats keep them in your own yard.

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grant_1968 — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:28:35 GMT

Can I add that in his younger years he was employed as a feral animal controller for the Government in Victoria. He hated cats with a passion.

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grant_1968 — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:29:40 GMT

They are! But i thank you for your spiritual guidance and understanding 🙂

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**meep** — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:37:48 GMT

do you think if you were to move from your haunted house, he would follow?

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silverfaun — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:39:13 GMT

Animal haters are detestable people in themselves and I sypathize with anybody who has to put up with that type of thing. Hope you live a serene life now.

If you have a cat, may I suggest you have a cat run constructed to keep it safe.

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grant_1968 — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:39:23 GMT

I wont move. I may have to learn to get along with him in the after life.

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grant_1968 — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:40:23 GMT

Do you think a dead animal controller is able to kill pets in the afterlife?

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**meep** — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:44:12 GMT

@grant_1968 wrote:
I wont move. I may have to learn to get along with him in the after life.

OK.....well...if I were in your position and truly believed it was actually him, I would try talking to him and hopefully sort it out or get a priest.

Good luck.

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**meep** — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:45:39 GMT

@grant_1968 wrote:
Do you think a dead animal controller is able to kill pets in the afterlife?

No idea...

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boris1gary — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:50:54 GMT

@grant_1968 wrote:
Do you think a dead animal controller is able to kill pets in the afterlife?

are you absolutely, positive he is dead? did you attend the funeral to make sure?

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grant_1968 — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:52:56 GMT

Well a funeral notice went in the paper and that needs a death certificate and a lot of people went to the church so I'm guessing he is. But his wife is a right cow so he may have faked it just to annoy her. Certainly wasted the ambulance operators time if he is a phony!

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zelly888 — Thu, 27 Feb 2014 23:58:49 GMT

grant_1968 wrote:

Do you think a dead animal controller is able to kill pets in the afterlife?

Yes but only in HELL

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fourandsixpants — Fri, 28 Feb 2014 00:01:51 GMT

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grant_1968 — Fri, 28 Feb 2014 00:07:09 GMT

So you think i need to contact Gertrude?

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zelly888 — Fri, 28 Feb 2014 00:12:58 GMT

Only when your cat dies

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green-gifts-mkd — Fri, 28 Feb 2014 00:15:52 GMT

It's your subconcious working through your feelings towards this fellow. Even if he was detestable, celebrating the death of such a repugnant person, who probably didn't want a bar of getting to know or be with his Creator in the afterlife, is never a healthy thing.

I would say just let go of everything that has happened between you, as it will affect your life more than his! (His day is well and truly done).

In other words, make peace with your past so it won't screw up your present or future. Forgive him.

P.S. I don't think your cats are in jeopardy.

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grant_1968 — Fri, 28 Feb 2014 00:18:25 GMT

Gee i hope you are right because i was going to look like a right idiot surrounding my house in water softener salt. But i genuinelly think you are correct. Thanks

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**meep** — Fri, 28 Feb 2014 00:23:02 GMT

@zelly888 wrote:
Only when your cat dies

well that's a bit pointless.....you would pray for protection.

Here is a prayer to St Francis of Assisi:

Good St. Francis, you loved all of God's creatures.
             To you they were your brothers and sisters.
            Help us to follow your example
            of treating every living thing with kindness.
            St. Francis, Patron Saint of animals,
            watch over my pet
            and keep my companion safe and healthy.
            Amen.

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**meep** — Fri, 28 Feb 2014 00:24:39 GMT

@grant_1968 wrote:
Gee i hope you are right because i was going to look like a right idiot surrounding my house in water softener salt. But i genuinelly think you are correct. Thanks

oh, what does that do?

let us know if he comes back.