topic Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage? in Community Spirit

Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

the_bob_delusion — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 10:00:01 GMT

Is it wrong to compliment a lady on her cleavage or is this consider sexual harrassment? Is it any different than complimenting her on her attractiveness or physique? Is this another one of those social constructs of what is acceptable and what isn't?

Why would some women expose their cleavage and get offended if others looked?

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

gutterpunkz05 — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 10:04:42 GMT

Of course it is wrong to look at a womans cleavage.

You should be looking at her BooBs

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joztamps — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 10:14:21 GMT

Quite right, when heading towards goal, lower your eyes.

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davewil1964 — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 10:20:08 GMT

@the_bob_delusion wrote:
Is it wrong to compliment a lady on her cleavage or is this consider sexual harrassment? Is it any different than complimenting her on her attractiveness or physique? Is this another one of those social constructs of what is acceptable and what isn't?

Why would some women expose their cleavage and get offended if others looked?

GO

The heading was LOOKING, but the body was commenting. Do you know the difference?

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

joz*garage — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 11:24:48 GMT

Who knows

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

zanadoo_56 — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 11:41:36 GMT

Glancing? Not a problem with that, but if you are carrying on a conversation with her and staring at her breasts the whole time instead of her face.....that's very very wrong.

Complimenting her on her cleavage? That depends. I would say most of the time that's an emphatic NO. You might say something flattering about nice she looks but keep it general.

However there may be an exception....if the lady has just had a breast enlargement or reduction and is clearly fishing for complements, by all means say something nice....but be careful - nothing sleazy or in bad taste.

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

repentatleisure1952 — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 13:12:31 GMT

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JAUvyRou3g&ab_channel=Ph%3Aobos

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

katistrophik — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 13:22:15 GMT

@the_bob_delusion wrote:
Is it wrong to compliment a lady on her cleavage or is this consider sexual harrassment? Is it any different than complimenting her on her attractiveness or physique? Is this another one of those social constructs of what is acceptable and what isn't?

Why would some women expose their cleavage and get offended if others looked?

GO

No, I don't think so, depends how you compliment - do you just stare at them drooling, or do you actually speak?

Now touching - THAT would be WRONG and dangerous

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

bidicus*maximus — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 13:28:32 GMT

Probably best not to comment, but if looking is wrong, I don't wanna be right...

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katistrophik — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 13:39:30 GMT

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4channel — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 13:54:01 GMT

@joz*garage wrote:
Who knows

Jon T. Benn who played the Mafia boss in Way of the Dragon was Mansfield's neighbour. He was a friend of Lee and that's how he got the role in his film.

https://www.sflinsider.com/2015/11/01/jon-benn/

In his book he shared an interesting story about the lovely Jayne.

Anyway, it was back in the late 50s or early 60s he was a neighbour of Jayne Mansfeld and he went over to her place and saw her lying down beside the swimming pool. She partially popped out of her swimsuit when she saw him. He offered to help her with the top part issue but to his regreat she declined his offer.

She was a guest at his wedding.

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

katistrophik — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 14:47:04 GMT

Interesting........

Another tidbit of trivia…..

A Sophomaniac is a person that suffers from the delusion of having superior intelligence. A person under the impression that they are more intelligent than others

I found that quite enlightening

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

imastawka — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 14:53:46 GMT

Fixed it. Took out the blah, blah and re-sized the pics for human consumption

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

4channel — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 17:13:19 GMT

@katistrophik wrote:
Interesting........

Another tidbit of trivia…..

A Sophomaniac is a person that suffers from the delusion of having superior intelligence. A person under the impression that they are more intelligent than others

I found that quite enlightening

I never thought of Jon T. Benn as a sophomaniac etc.. Just a clever, witty well travelled man.

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

domino-710 — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 21:39:17 GMT

Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

Certainly not :

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

bright.ton42 — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 01:23:23 GMT

If a woman, like Jayne Mansfield, chooses to earn her fame somewhat on her cleavage , and displaying it whenever she can , then it is to be expected eyes would be on it, even Sophia's. It's human nature. I'm not criticising Jayne (RIP), if they want to flaunt it then whatever floats their boat.

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davidc4430 — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 03:20:37 GMT

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sandypebbles — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 03:55:25 GMT

Those so into navel-gazing as they are cannot help but look at cleavage from time to time

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gutterpunkz05 — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 10:30:32 GMT

If we don't look, we are likely to trip over them, now that could be embarrassing

Re: Is it wrong to look at cleavage?

joz*garage — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 11:39:41 GMT

I love boob threads.

I missed out on the one where members actually showed em