topic Re: How RUDE in Community Spirit

How RUDE

daydream**believer — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 00:13:17 GMT

Got ready early this morning so i could drop the kids at school and head to Westfield before it got too hot.

Got a great park at the shops.

Got everything done that i needed to and when i get back to my car, some ratbag has parked in a non car spot right behind me, blocking me in.

I rummage through my bag looking for a pen to write down her licence plate so i can report her to westfield. No pen.

I look for my phone, find it. Phone is not charged (nothing unusual for me).

So i stand and wait and wait and wait and just as im about to leave and go find center management, this lady runs to the car yelling "Sorry Sorry".
I say "You are a rude, inconsiderate *female dog*. I was just about to go report you. This is not a car park and your selfishness has kept me waiting here with my baby."

She says "I was only 5 minutes".

I say "Actually, it has been 9 minutes since i got here, so who knows how long you were before that".

She then gets in the car and drives off.
X-( some people are so inconsiderate and rude.

And there were plenty of other car spaces left that she could have parked in

Re: How RUDE

topsidesoul — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 00:26:07 GMT

What is worse is people who bang the side of your car with a trolley or their door or their handbag.

I hate parking at shopping centres and will spend 15 minutes finding an end park and park right up to the side too keep enough door swing rrom.

There is nothing worse than returning to the car to find a ding or worse, someones trolley againt you car because they couldnt be arsed to walk 10 meters to the trolley return.

Re: How RUDE

daydream**believer — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 00:32:41 GMT

this woman didnt park where she did to stop her car getting bumped.

She parked there cause it was close to the door and she couldnt be bothered to park a little further away and walk an extra 10 meters.

Re: How RUDE

topsidesoul — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 00:33:25 GMT

Atleast the guy turns up to his public hanging:^O

He reminds me off myself when questioned about a book I never read for an assignment.

Re: How RUDE

topsidesoul — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 00:34:29 GMT

Wrong post.

Very rude lady.

Re: How RUDE

j*oono — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 00:39:09 GMT

I really can't understand why she would do that. It is very rude and strange.

The one thing that I hate about shopping centre car parks is the drivers that can't even be bothered to look behind them when they are reversing out of their spot and it seems to be happening a lot lately.

Last week I reversed my car out and suddenly the car parked behind me decided to do the same without realising that I already had. I had to throw mine back into drive and pull back in to avoid getting crunched and they still didn't see me!

Re: How RUDE

azureline** — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 00:48:30 GMT

Yes, she was rude... but really ??? you say "You are a rude, inconsiderate *female dog*.:O

You just made yourself as rude as her. Had you left off the descriptive word, you would have been a cut above her, imo.

Re: How RUDE

daydream**believer — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 00:54:32 GMT

give me a break.

If she hadnt done what she did, i would of had no need to call her that.

I am a cut above her because i would never block someone in their carpark, no matter how quick i thought i was going to be.

And it is so so humid here today that her rudeness and the heat just tipped me over the edge.

Re: How RUDE

the_hawk* — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:02:51 GMT

You were very restrained Amy people have had their doors kicked in for far less.

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danger.will.robinson — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:04:21 GMT

She was inconsiderat, but I agree wiuth Az on the name calling. Bogan stuff

Re: How RUDE

daydream**believer — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:06:47 GMT

lol, well perhaps i should of said something like this then

"Oh you are a very naughty lady for blocking me in. Please be so kind as to not do it again".

Re: How RUDE

daydream**believer — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:08:20 GMT

You were very restrained Amy people have had their doors kicked in for far less.

thats what i was thinking. She's lucky she only blocked me in, someone else may have scratched her car, or gotten much more agro with her when she returned

Re: How RUDE

izabsmiling — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:14:08 GMT

I hope no one thinks that you had a right to kick her door in ? 😮

Re: How RUDE

izabsmiling — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:17:14 GMT

Hopefully she will think more next time and won't do it again.I'm glad that you didn't have to wait for too long before she came back.I hope that your day improves Amy 🙂

Re: How RUDE

the_hawk* — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:26:05 GMT

I hope no one thinks that you had a right to kick her door in ? 😮

In my wilder days I have moved peoples cars for them and that's while they were in them.

Sadly I am past taking on 2 angry people at a time now.

Re: How RUDE

izabsmiling — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:31:46 GMT

I see nothing in the OP to indicate that the female who parked in the way was angry or needed her car moved with her in it ? She said Sorry and left .

Re: How RUDE

daydream**believer — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:33:37 GMT

no, no one has a right to kick her door in over this, but we all know there are some very agro people in this world. Road rage and carpark rage are becoming very common.

Like i said, she's lucky she blocked me in and had had to deal with me calling her a name.

Someone else may have done a lot worse.

It just gets me that she figured her time was more important than mine

Re: How RUDE

izabsmiling — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:41:19 GMT

She may have not been thinking anything or thinking at all ...maybe she will in future.

She could have even had that attitude that "Oh this is nothing..other people do far worse"

Re: How RUDE

purple_haize — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:41:34 GMT

no, no one has a right to kick her door in over this, but we all know there are some very agro people in this world. Road rage and carpark rage are becoming very common.

Like i said, she's lucky she blocked me in and had had to deal with me calling her a name.

Someone else may have done a lot worse.

It just gets me that she figured her time was more important than mine

Unfortunately Amy, the great majority of people only think of themselves, they dont care where they park like in your case........she was only thinking of herself.

I probably would have said similar to this woman, so you are not the only one.......if people make me mad, depending on the situation, I usually say something, it is only human to do so, in this day and age.

Re: How RUDE

cat_mioux — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 02:19:27 GMT

And this little incident shows us how manners have gone down the sewer.

1. Lady blocks another car. An example of the selfishness of others.

2. Blocked lady 'rips' into the blocker and calls her a rude name after the blocker says sorry. In front of her baby.

What ever happened to accepting an apology with dignity and grace?