on โ14-05-2014 09:38 AM
Today is Apraxia Awareness Day.
As many of you know, my 3 yr old son has Verbal Apraxia. I'll admit i had not even heard of Apraxia 6 months ago.
Hayden started speech therapy 2 months ago and has gone from only being able to say 4 or 5 words clearly to now have a vocabulary of just over 20 words and he is starting to put those words together to make sentences. He can also now count up to 5. Im so proud of him.
But what i do struggle with is strangers who talk to him at the shops and when he responds in the babble that he thinks is talking, they look shocked and judgemental.
So, as it is Apraxia Awareness day, just become aware of it ๐
on โ14-05-2014 09:44 AM
That's great to hear at 12 going on 13 A is doing well enough for me to forget he has the condition most of the time. Being misunderstood and or teased for it seems a thing of the past for him now.
on โ14-05-2014 09:57 AM
easy for me to say but ignore the fools who look shocked and judgemental or just laugh in their faces. My youngest had some speech problems many years ago, not noticeable now.
on โ14-05-2014 10:57 AM
So they look shocked & judgemental do they - poor them, but that means they think they are just absolutely 100% perfect mothers - oh don't we all just wish - try and ignore them love and give them the sweetest biggest smile you can conjour up - remember, if you keep smiling, everyone wonders about what you are thinking lol
on โ14-05-2014 11:18 AM
That is great Daydream, that he has come along so well.
We all see the judgement of strangers for many reasons, never make eye contact with them or let them see it bothers you.
Sometimes it can just be the "shock" they feel unexpectedly, not knowing how to reply, may not necessarily be judgement.
on โ14-05-2014 11:22 AM
on โ14-05-2014 11:39 AM
I'm pleased that things are progressing for your little one.
I remember when you brought Apraxia to our attention. It was openly discussed. It made me aware of the condition.
I may be completely off beam here. However, I believe anyone who takes time to chat to a little one, has compassion and cares about kids. Therefore, how about mentioning Apraxia and the progress that has been achieved by his therapy. Thank them for helping him listen to other peoples' voices.
Just a thought.
DEB
on โ14-05-2014 01:53 PM
thanks everyone for your replies.
I think i am a touch hypersensitive but i also know there have been times when i have seen judgement.
My hubby just shrugs them off and says "he doesnt talk" and walks away.
I find i feel i have to explain and then tell them his condition.
I suppose that is a good way to get the awareness spread.
Today for the first time he put 3 words together, "Eat more banana"