Generation Of Girls At Risk

This article by Miranda Devine in last weeks telegraph caught my eye and thought it would make for interesting discussion here:


 


Secrets of the hookup culture


 


"THERE is one domain in which woman have always reigned supreme, and that is the business of coupling, procreating and child rearing. Therefore, if you influence women, you influence the fabric of society. Which is why feminism has been such an important weapon in the armament of the left.


But feminism has now gone well beyond redressing genuine inequality to advocating behaviours and attitudes that damage women, and threaten the health of society. The evidence is there to be seen for anyone who cares to look, in the annals of psychological disorders that afflict so many young women today."


 


http://blogs.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/mirandadevine/index.php/dailytelegraph/comments/generation_o...


 


"The zipless f ... eulogised by yesterday’s feminists has become the norm for Gen Y in the form of a too-often joyless, mechanical and regret-filled hook-up culture. Secks and human connection, let alone love and compassion, have effectively been decoupled in the hook-up culture, in which dating has given way to no-strings-attached physical encounters.


The term “hook-up” is exactly as dehumanising it sounds, and a fascinating study by the American Psychological Association last month shows how disconnected are the seckual behaviours and private internal desires of young men, and especially young women.


Yet the establishment’s concern and outrage is marshalled against the rare piece of advice from elders that might offer an antidote to despair."


 


"Meantime, out in the real world, The American Psychological Association review, “Sexual Hookup culture” shows the disturbing psychological consequences, for both men and women. They include unwanted sex (mostly alongside alcohol and substance abuse), profound regret and feelings of shame, emptiness, and in some cases depression."


 


I despair also for the generation after this one...


 


 


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having 3 gg in their teens...will think about it Icy

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Good fodder for the IVF business though.


 


 

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wasnt the 60s all about hooking up, I hooked up in the 90's. I don't think its anything new, just more people doing it?

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Well weren't we all Duff?


Actually people have been "hooking up" since humankind appeared on Earth. The proof of that is the fact that we're here typing away at each other.


 


The point that's being made is that for Gen Y, casual secks is just another bodily function to gratify, like scratching your nose or or squeezing a pimple. A quick gratification that is otherwise pointless and meaningless and quickly dismissed.


Yet, from the article:


“Sexual Hookup culture” shows the disturbing psychological consequences, for both men and women. They include unwanted sex (mostly alongside alcohol and substance abuse), profound regret and feelings of shame, emptiness, and in some cases depression.


 


Saddest of all is that while most men and women did not expect a romantic relationship as the outcome of a hookup, fully one third of men and almost half of women “ideally wanted” such an outcome.


 


Also note the sentence:  "They include unwanted sex (mostly alongside alcohol and substance abuse)"


which does not augur well for a child conceived accidently in this way.


 


I  don't know why I keep changing it to secks. It appear one can get away with much worse here these days.


 


 

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Duff I keep getting your avi mixed up with Iza's

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I did read the article Icy. all those feeling have been around forever too- I didnt feel too great about myself waking up to complete strangers but hey- these feelings pass....and then we do it again. and again. lol...until we get sick of those feelings, and stop doing it and look for more meaningful relationships.


 


 


and I dont know Iza..but Im Duff lol 🙂


 


 

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So where do you find meaningful relationships if all anyone wants to do is "hook up"


 


Bars?


 


Parties?


 


Pubs?


 


 

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the article is making out all young people do is hook up.. I know lots of young people and a lot of them are in stable/long term relationships.

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the article is making out all young people do is hook up.. I know lots of young people and a lot of them are in stable/long term relationships.



 


Oh yes so do I.


 


But there are also lots just "hooking up". And it's disempowering for young women and men alike. Instead of empowering as we were led to believe back in the 60s


 


It's just and endless treadmill of partying, hooking up, then doing it all over again next weekend.


 


Next minute your'e 30 and wondering what the rest of your life is going to be all about.


 


I guess that's when IVF and sperm donorship comes in.


 


Good old big business.


 

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