on โ26-01-2014 10:48 AM
Are you an Aussie Mongrel too? ๐
see video at top of story
http://www.smh.com.au/comment/this-day-marks-great-loss-and-great-gift-20140125-31fc1.html
Belinda Lopez
My grandparents were boat people. Not asylum seekers, specifically, but they did arrive by boat, and they'd left a dictatorship in Spain that prevented the expression of culture and political beliefs. They were lucky in that they wanted to be in Australia at the same time that Australia wanted them.
This was the 1960s, and the Australian government's thirst for migrants was insatiable.
When I read the headlines today about asylum seekers/illegal arrivals/insert label here, I'm struck by the sheer luck of my family having made it to Australia at the right time, and from the right country.
There's a lack of self-reflection among Australians when we focus on the ''mode of arrival'' of those trying to come to this country, as a means of determining whether they are people who legitimately deserve be here. It's as if we've forgotten something pretty crucial: We all got here somehow.
The thought struck me on the train. Our rail network is a rich ecosystem of ethnicities and languages. Cultures morph and intermingle across stations. Everyone in my carriage had a story of arriving here somehow. And so, inspired by the Coalition government's focus on ''mode of arrival'', I started approaching strangers on trains, with a microphone.
Certain rules of non-interaction on public transport are maintained, silently. People jump when you approach them. They eye you suspiciously over their smartphones. But I persevered. I walked up to people, and I asked them: How did you get here?
Of course, I was looking for an answer to a deeper question: How had they arrived in Australia?
The initial reactions fell into three clear categories.
Many of the passengers of Anglo-Saxon heritage answered casually, telling me what station they'd hopped on at.
Foreigners living here told me how they'd arrived in Australia - through love and heartbreak, poverty, secrecy, forced opportunity and unexpected chance.
And people like me - the first-generation and second-generation Australians whose parents and grandparents had arrived here by boat or plane - sometimes answered guardedly and a little defensively. "I was born here. I consider myself Australian. I am Australian," they'd say. I got the feeling they'd been asked that question more than once.
In one memorable train ride, there were stories of dictatorial governments, of dreams about Australia drawn from soap operas, of civil war, orphans - and of course convicts. And always - mostly always - a smile when they reflected on their luck of having ended up here, whether it was two months or 200 years ago.
The people of indigenous heritage I spoke to gave the same answer in one form or another: "Well, 65,000 years ago my ancestors arrived here, and we've been here ever since."
I left the train exhausted with the weight of the stories I was carrying with me. It was strange to think I would never have known them if I hadn't asked.
There's a lot more to think about on Australia Day than the shopping list for booze and which songs might make Triple J's Hottest 100. For indigenous Australians, it's the story of survival. The public holiday marks the beginning of great loss: of separation from land, from culture, from children. For families whose ancestors were migrants, my family - and most likely yours included - the day marks the gifting of a second chance, and a second home.
What I'll also be thinking about this Australia Day is the endless potential for a great conversation with someone in this country. So go on. Try it. Ask the person next to you. And remember to ask yourself: "How did you get here?"
on โ26-01-2014 02:45 PM
My great grandparents on my mother's side came from Ireland (not sure if it was their choice), and my grandmother (their daughter) who was a country girl from Forbes NSW, married a man of Irish ancestory, who was born in Conneticut, US. She sailed with him to America in the 1890s, but hated it and they arrived back in Australia in 1904, where they lived happily ever after (more or less).
My father's family emigrated from Wales around the same time as my mother's did.
on โ26-01-2014 02:47 PM
both my OH and I are supposedly related to William the Conqueror......fecund little person he was
on โ26-01-2014 02:52 PM
both of you???
on โ26-01-2014 02:53 PM
@kengillard wrote:have you tried Ancestry.com Freaky?
Not seriously. They don't have enough info about that story to tempt me. the name gets 0 entries.
on โ26-01-2014 03:23 PM
So were most of us born here, but your ancestors may have a different story to you regarding pain, persecutution, journeys and all.
on โ26-01-2014 03:41 PM
I was a ten quid tourist, so they took away my passport and issued me with a 'document of identity' instead, which was only valid for the journey over. it was to make sure I didn't sneak out of the country again before my two years obligatory stay was up.
Luckily I kept it as a memento - it's come in handy a couple of times, the last being when I applied for a pension and they needed proof of whether I had permanent residence status.
I am not officially an Australian Citizen.. when I came here you didn't need to take out citizenship if you were born in the UK and after they changed the rules I just never got around to it. I don't believe, at my time of life, that standing up in front of an official and reciting an oath of allegience would make me feel any more Australian than I do already.
on โ26-01-2014 06:01 PM
@freakiness wrote:
@i-need-a-martini wrote:My story is a little like the authors.
Both my parents arrived (by boat) from Italy. My father to escape being enlisted in the army at a time when fascists soldiers were rounding innocent people up, lining them against a wall, and shooting them. He couldn't go back until the late 70's when an amnesty was announced. He would have been imprisoned otherwise.
My mother was sent out here with her older sister because her family was still suffering form the after effects of the war. Basically there wasn't enough food to feed the two sisters and no prospects of marriage because all them men of marriagable age were either dead of in America or Australia. So enough money was gathered by family members to send them to Australia (who was offering cheap one way tickets at the time as they needed unskilled labour). She was 14 at the time and had no idea where Australia was.
I have hardly any knowledge of how I got here.
One ancestor was a ship's captain bringing supplies, not sure if he also brought convicts. His wife stayed in the UK and he had kids out here. No idea who the mothers were.
Another was from Europe. They turned their back on the Catholic Church until eventually the area got reclaimed and the people got the boot. I haven't heard much about their stories and it's very hard to find information.
Freaky I could try and help you find some information if you like, or point you to some websites that may be more helpful than Ancestry.
I go back about 6 generations in Australia, mostly English/Irish/Scottish before that.
on โ26-01-2014 06:05 PM
How did you get here?
I started listing on eBay and checked out the discussion boards. Viola! Haven't been able to tear myself away since!
on โ26-01-2014 06:13 PM
Were you a ten quid tourist or a ten quid immigrant? I have never heard of a ten quid pom being called a tourist?
Or did some ten quid poms do that? Just came on a holiday?
on โ26-01-2014 06:16 PM
I have no idea how my ancestors got here.....but it was 8 generations ago.
All I know is that they were Scottish.
Hmmm. maybe in leg irons.