So is it time

that we all stopped commenting or passing judgement on posts or threads that we don't like?


 


eBay is a large and diverse community, There are always going to be some that like some things and some that don't.


 


So, as long as the post/thread is within eBay's guidleines, is it time to just let people post what and how they want?


 


Perhaps if you do find something offensive, how about PM'ing the person involved to politely explain your position instead of doing it in a manner that may cause humiliation.


 


*Disclaimer, the above option did not work very well for me, so in no way can I advise that this is the best option, but just a suggestion. LOL.


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as I said it depends on the content,


 


didnt she abuse=e you


 


has she sent dozens or atleast daily


 


if its only the one that is not abusive then have a laugh and delete it


 




It was polite, and it was only one. I messaged her to inform her that the 0 ID's she was suggesting were mine were not mine. I said I didn't know whose they were. I said to report them if she liked as she knows that if they were connected to me I would be banned. I said that I was trying to stay away from all the Syringer/OzRT infighting. I acknowledged that she would probably pass my message around.



it line about 5 or 6 sentences. 



Nothing abusive or rude etc.


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Oh FGS, take some responsibility and stop trying to put the blame for your actions on others.



And there's that "bully" word again. Overused.

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so thats why you thought I was referring to you, you were so wrong but the effects are still rippling out

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Nev # 132








Signatures suck.
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Is receiving one email bullying? Isn't bullying meant to be persistent & ongoing?



Agree with nevyn.

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You were the person who said it, so it was to you I sent the message. 



Now, it wasn't just me you shared it with,was it? I believe that you announced it publicly, firstly in the RTR thread and then again in the Tolerance thread, the latter occasion, inferring nefarious activity.



At no time did I say you would report anybody, I however did suggest that you may like to, as if they are connected to me I would be banned.



I have never admitted to using or being a 0 ID. It has been said many times, so perhaps you now think that it is true, it has also been reported, however, it was proven it was not me, and Deb even apologised for that one.



I did identify the person behind two of the 0IDs that I have been accused of. The rest, I have no idea To whom they belong.


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I chose not to address the accusation publicly, as I did not want to intrude upon the senseless fodder and slanging matches that were already occurring in the RTR thread.



I had no interest in entering into an interpersonal dispute, or intruding in that thread in general. I simply wanted to inform the a false accuser that it was not I.


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People are trying to pin the bully tag on others and  yet they engage in this sort of behaviour themselves.

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One very polite PM consisting of about 5 sentences To correct a false accusation.




Bullying? ROFL.



If that's the benchmark for bullying used, no wonder there are so many threads started about bullying. No wonder some posters continually claim that they are being bullied.


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