What excuses do you use?

[the_bob_delusion]

http://news.nationalpost.com/2014/07/22/whos-the-worst-frustrated-husband-creates-no-sex-spreadsheet...

[terroxyboy]

Why is it his job to entice? Because the act of sexual intercourse should ideally be between two mutually consenting adults, one which they both enjoy. It is more his job to entice, than her duty to have to hand over the use of her body for him to get his rocks off after wearing her down with nagging.

I think the most telling item on the husband's list in the original spreadsheet is the one which states 'I wont have time to get showered and ready for dinner (we were 20 minutes early)'.

So 20 minutes is what he considers to be enough time to 'successfully' engage in the act of making love with your wife from start to finish? Someone needs to talk to this guys about the concept of foreplay.

[annies_fancy_dress]

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@**what_would_bob_do** wrote:

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Why is it his job to entice you?

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Hey, he wants it!

I can do without it.

If he'd make an effort, both before and during, he might get more.

[the_bob_delusion]

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@terroxyboy wrote:

Why is it his job to entice? Because the act of sexual intercourse should ideally be between two mutually consenting adults, one which they both enjoy. It is more his job to entice, than her duty to have to hand over the use of her body for him to get his rocks off after wearing her down with nagging.

I think the most telling item on the husband's list in the original spreadsheet is the one which states 'I wont have time to get showered and ready for dinner (we were 20 minutes early)'.

So 20 minutes is what he considers to be enough time to 'successfully' engage in the act of making love with your wife from start to finish? Someone needs to talk to this guys about the concept of foreplay.

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Ever heard of a concept of a quickie?

[the_bob_delusion]

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@annies_fancy_dress wrote:

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@**what_would_bob_do** wrote:

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Why is it his job to entice you?

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Hey, he wants it!

I can do without it.

If he'd make an effort, both before and during, he might get more.

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Kinda the point Doodah was making. THis is part of a healthy relationship which urs ain't. 

[the_bob_delusion]

http://www.essentialkids.com.au/family-life/family-home/how-normal-is-your-sex-life-20140725-3ckmi.h...

“I think it is really crucial that you do [make time for sex] because the other research has shown in a good relationship your sex life or the sex part of it only makes up about 15 to 20 per cent of your satisfaction,” says Hart, “whereas if the sex is bad or non-existent, it creates something like 50 to 75 per cent of the problem.”

[da-ma31]

if you love your partner you will go for it even if you don't really feel like it.

you can get into the mood along the way  and if not - so what?

i love to see my partner smile and be happy and it's not like being raped or like have to have sex with someone you dislike or so. 

it's a small "sacrifice (only if you can't get into the mood before the action starts)" to make your partner happy.

i would feel awful denying my partner sex and see his sad face.

at the age of 26 once a day is minimum. this man has the wrong partner and needs to seperate.