on 23-12-2014 05:58 PM
on 23-12-2014 06:25 PM
@rabbitearbandicoot wrote:
@horizon1907 wrote:Why don't you pay a visit to a Catholic Church and ask a Priest ? 🙂
the last time I was in a church, I got married ..... learned my lesson.... it was a Church of England.
I also went into a Catholic Church once ... a very good friend had died ... a funeral.
so you can see, my experiences in Churches have been ... shall we say ... not all that positive.
hang on, that's not true - when we went to UK we went into several churches, abbeys etc.
It is not the churches you have to be afraid of.
It is the religion.
on 23-12-2014 06:27 PM
Religious views on cremation
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cremation
Catholic Cremation
http://www.catholic-cemeteries.org/cremation.aspx
on 23-12-2014 06:30 PM
we went to Shrewsbury Abbey - amazing especially if you are a Cadfael fan.
we also went to an Abbey on Isle of Wight (sp) - that was especially amazing, as it was once a private house and my great-grandfather was employed as a coach driver there. The coach yards are all still intact as are the stables and the archway into the yard where all would have boarded or left the coach.
Anyway, I ramble!
So, it's not a requirement by the Church?
on 23-12-2014 06:32 PM
@rabbitearbandicoot wrote:it's just that a friend of my sisters has died - she left instructions that she (Catholic) wanted to be cremated, but the children who are Catholic are trying to stop it.
That's pretty carppy. Why aren't they respecting her wishes?
on 23-12-2014 06:33 PM
@rabbitearbandicoot wrote:it's just that a friend of my sisters has died - she left instructions that she (Catholic) wanted to be cremated, but the children who are Catholic are trying to stop it.
is your sister trying to help them
sort it out?
on 23-12-2014 06:34 PM
@rabbitearbandicoot wrote:we went to Shrewsbury Abbey - amazing especially if you are a Cadfael fan.
we also went to an Abbey on Isle of Wight (sp) - that was especially amazing, as it was once a private house and my great-grandfather was employed as a coach driver there. The coach yards are all still intact as are the stables and the archway into the yard where all would have boarded or left the coach.
Anyway, I ramble!
So, it's not a requirement by the Church?
Think it is more a 'belief' of the church - ultimately the church has no say - as far as your personal decsisions are concerned.
Matters of state - wills etc.
Depends the particular person's wishes.
Put me in a green glad bag - fine.
But then I am a Pantheist - meaning I love all the Gods & Goddesses for that matter.
on 23-12-2014 06:35 PM
@rabbitearbandicoot wrote:we went to Shrewsbury Abbey - amazing especially if you are a Cadfael fan.
we also went to an Abbey on Isle of Wight (sp) - that was especially amazing, as it was once a private house and my great-grandfather was employed as a coach driver there. The coach yards are all still intact as are the stables and the archway into the yard where all would have boarded or left the coach.
Anyway, I ramble!
So, it's not a requirement by the Church?
doesn't look like it. otherwise there would
not be catholic cremation instructions.
on 23-12-2014 06:37 PM
@*julia*2010 wrote:
@rabbitearbandicoot wrote:it's just that a friend of my sisters has died - she left instructions that she (Catholic) wanted to be cremated, but the children who are Catholic are trying to stop it.
is your sister trying to help them
sort it out?
no, not really. She just mentioned that the family are discussing the options. I think one of the children is up here (QLD) where the mother is and the other children are in NSW / VIC.
on 23-12-2014 06:47 PM
@horizon1907 wrote:Why don't you pay a visit to a Catholic Church and ask a Priest ? 🙂
you'd think asking the priest would be one
of the first things the kids would be doing.
seems a bit strange.
on 23-12-2014 07:02 PM