Try letting your kids breathe for themselves a little OP, it won't hurt them or you, but if you don't grant them a little bit of slack you may well end up losing them totally in a few yaears if they rebel against your overly strict manner.

Either that or they won't be able to cope in the real world...

Dianne, your kids are going to turn into boring nerds with no friends because they won't know how to handle themselves in social situations. 

It depends if she is for real or if she's winding us up.