I think you are best putting this post in the Buyers or Sellers discussion forum. This is more a social, community page and not one devoted to ebay transactions.

And every single person who posts here act like decent people act :^O

That is pretty insulting.  Given that a very small percentage of ebayers even know about these boards, chances are that the non-payers that you are addressing will never even see your post.

We've all had this happen.  In my experience most buyers and sellers are wonderful.  Move on.

That's not very nice moorna I think they have some pretty cool stuff, I don't know about the price because I am not in the market for that type of thing.

OP you do have your own brand of recourse against the buyer or non payer you just open a dispute and if they don't pay they get a strike, I don't like to do that myself because you don't really know the circumstances of why they have not paid.

But you would get more results in the buyer or seller forum.

Yep agree with Margo. Some good stuff ( I really want that vintage esky!).

But I agree with those who have said you should move on.

OP you have some good feedback.  You seem to be doing well.  Do what the 

others say about non-payers, and continue to give the good service that you do.  🙂

no big deal, i don't bother to email non payers or even bother to send them a reminder invoice coz the buyer knows they bought the thing & they already recieved an automated email/invoice from ebay to pay  

I wait untill four days then open an unpaid item dispute if theres no reponse, most of the times its a wake up call for the buyer then they pay - close the dispute. If they still havent paid by four days after the dispute.. they recieve whatever restrictions they get from ebay for being a pita (who cares) and most importantly you recoup any incurring ebay fees - relist your item or send a second chance offer if bidders were fighting over it. Only thing you end up losing is time.  

Wasn't there a case a few years ago where a guy bought an aeroplane on ebay and then didn't want to pay and the court made him pay?