So dad is in Sydneyright  now going to court. Hopefully this will be the end of all the court case stuff

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@daydream**believer wrote:

So dad is in Sydneyright  now going to court. Hopefully this will be the end of all the court case stuff

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I hope so for his sake Amy.

Yeh, the court case is over and settled.

The passenger lost his case.

Blackpool settled with Mums case and Mum has won enough to cover her care for a few years.

There is no change in Mums condition

Hello

I am new in here and have not seen this thread before but didnt see because I was busy with my mum too.

She just died of cancer. So I wanted to say hello... I am about to read all of this thread... I want to offer my support to you because it sounds like you are going through a  very tough time and I know what that is like.

All the best

Beani

Hi beani, its a long thread.

Has now been on 3 ebay boards, ChinWag, Community Spirit and now this new Community Spirit.

That is good Amy, hopefully it is a relief for your dad. 🙂

Amy it is a long thread. Mine was cut down a lot... I have not been on the boards as long as I have been on ebay...

I discovered the forum later on...

But I found that having a thread where you can spill your emotions has been very helpful for me so I hope that you find it that way too.

Sometimes you can say things to strangers you cant say to your friends and family out here.

A lot of the emotions I read you going through sound very similar to mine... its a roller coaster.

I hope today is a good day for you

beani (Sabine)

Spoke to my dad last night. He is very depressed. Mum is not well and has been crying and moaning for the last 3 days. Doctor has seen her but they have no idea whats causing her pain and all they can give her is panadol. I find this really hard to deal with. Theres a part of me now that finds it hard to think of her as my Mum anymore (OMG, i am such a horrible daughter) and then i hate myself for feeling like that. Its like my brain has switched off the part of me that used to get so depressed over my Mum. Maybe its the only way i can cope with the hell my family has been through since Mum had her accident 6 years ago. I dont know.

But then i hate myself cause it is my Mum and she is in pain and i just wish it would end for her