I knew a needy one, but they didn't realize they were. To them their demands were justified. When they wanted something, I was expected to jump and be available.

 

They even got cross if I was talking to other people (so very posessive) thought they were being very generous in "allowing" me to go away for a few days to spend some time with some other friends. Got really cross when I was interstate for New Years Eve with other friends and got all huffy that I wasn't "there" at midnight.

 

Got equally huffy when I took time to answer emails etc (I'm talking maybe 1/2 hour?) when I was out with other friends.

 

 

They also kept changing the goal posts all the time, but never told me, so what was OK or what was expected yesterday changed frequently.

 

Did my head in.

 

Loved em to death, but **bleep** they were hard work.

 


Some people can go their whole lives and never really live for a single minute.

Thanks Icy.   I posted just above you. Maybe at the same time. 🙂

I think they missed one out

The controlling guy, who want to control every thing you do, keeps you away from your friends and phones you every hour to see what you are doing, this is the most dangerous of all men

Lionrose, and they don't even know they're doing it. My sisters ex put in an affidavit that she would go out without telling him where she was going as an explanation for texting and calling her to ask where she was. Really? Even when given an example of controlling behaviour he still could not see it as that??