I am sure that both partners had to be approved to be given foster kids.  If the woman now has a new partner he would have to be also approved by the department.  She should have immediately notified the department of any changes to her relationship, and you do not know if she did or did not.  But if you feel that there is something sus going on, call the DOCS and let them check it out.

000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

Voltaire: “Those Who Can Make You Believe Absurdities, Can Make You Commit Atrocities” .

Just call the relevant dept. in your state have a chat with a worker, make a report. It might be nothing, but do what you think is right.

 

 

 

 



“I’ve got my purse and my gift and my gloves and my selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitor and my monoamine oxidase inhibitor and I have my anti-anxiety disco biscuits and I am ready to go. I am really ready!” Sheila

Thanks everyone. I might make a call to the dept for a chat tomorrow. The foster mum has had a few people voice concern with her whirlwind romance and how much he is with the kids without any screening from the department. But she doesn't want to hear it, because she is being showered with gifts and weekends away. He is in all probability a nice person, but kids in care need different protections I feel.

I think that's the sensible responsible thing to do Lady Em.