What Do People Mean

grandmoon
Community Member

on ‎09-07-2014 09:01 AM

when they say "You have to accept me as I am"

 

 

 

 

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joz*garage
Community Member

on ‎09-07-2014 09:03 AM

take it, or leave it?

Signatures suck.

*crikey*mate*
Community Member

on ‎09-07-2014 09:05 AM

"I don't think enough of you to go to the trouble to inhibit or change the characteristics of mine that you find distasteful"


Some people can go their whole lives and never really live for a single minute.

harley_babes_hoard
Community Member

on ‎09-07-2014 09:06 AM

don't try and change me.
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grandmoon
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In response to *crikey*mate*

on ‎09-07-2014 09:09 AM

@*crikey*mate* wrote:

"I don't think enough of you to go to the trouble to inhibit or change the characteristics of mine that you find distasteful"

I like is it suits the person so well.  But why do they think that we all should change when they won't.

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harley_babes_hoard
Community Member
In response to grandmoon

on ‎09-07-2014 09:14 AM

because they think the worlds revolves around them. You are best without this person in your life if they are not willing to compromise. It's give and take in any relationship, friendship or otherwise.

*pepe
Community Member

on ‎09-07-2014 09:30 AM

@grandmoon wrote:

when they say "You have to accept me as I am"

 


 

 

 

 it means they are who they are, like it or lump it.

 

if you feel the need to change a person to have any sort of relationship with them, and they are unwilling or incapable of that change  then its a fair bet that relationship was not meant to be and wouldn't last anyway.

nevillesdaughter
Community Member

on ‎09-07-2014 09:49 AM

@grandmoon wrote:

when they say "You have to accept me as I am"

 

 

 

 

Sometimes (often?) it's code for "I think I'm perfect and therefore have nothing to learn about myself and no interest in learning about anyone else and how they may see things differently........ "

 

Just my opinion,

Marina.

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sineaterdoodah
Community Member
In response to nevillesdaughter

‎09-07-2014 10:16 AM - edited ‎09-07-2014 10:17 AM

and sometimes it means if you don't like who i am,why haven't you walked away,instead of trying to turn me into YOUR version of the perfect person? if that's what you want,find it. 

just sayin...

taste my religion! nibble a witch! 😄

boris1gary
Community Member
In response to sineaterdoodah

on ‎09-07-2014 10:21 AM

@sineaterdoodah wrote:

and sometimes it means if you don't like who i am,why haven't you walked away,instead of trying to turn me into YOUR version of the perfect person? if that's what you want,find it. 

just sayin...

I think it means exactly what it says.Woman Happy

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