Sorry DG I seriously dont think you understand.

dear Carla I understand where your coming from and if your ready give it a go, just be wary of the scams.    

Oh, yes, I understand perfectly well. Your reply has been noted 🙂

maybe for you dirtygirl, surely you must understand some woman simply want a soul mate, don't care if they're successful in business or not?

if not, sometimes working as a team they both have purpose to become financially successful. 

You can have children, you can have grandchildren, you can belong to so many clubs as well but at the end of the day you can still be lonely, I see it all the time. It is not about finances in most cases it about companionship, having someone to do things with.

Nic I so understand, Go for it XXXX

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**dirty.girl** wrote:Perhaps if women went back to school and/or found a job, worked harder in life, they could attain a financial and social footing without a man's help: Ya think?

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That's a bit of a naive generalisation.

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@**dirty.girl** wrote:

I think women have to ask themselves WHY they want to find a man at all? So many women say they are not desperate for sex, so that rules that out. Being bored/lonely - well women of a certain age usually have children, grandchildren and clubs they can involve themselves in. For socio-economic reasons - yes, that's it. The number one priority for a woman is a man's social and economic standing: how many women agree to date an unemployed man? Perhaps if women went back to school and/or found a job, worked harder in life, they could attain a financial and social footing without a man's help: Ya think?

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I think Erica explained very clearly how and why she, personally, "found a man." And  socio-economics didn't come into it at all. As for not dating an unemployed man, any woman who had raised her family and was  enjoying social and  economic independance would be very chary about taking on another dependant - that doesn't mean she wouldn't like a soul mate. 

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@buzzlightyearsgirlfriend wrote:

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**dirty.girl** wrote:Perhaps if women went back to school and/or found a job, worked harder in life, they could attain a financial and social footing without a man's help: Ya think?

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That's a bit of a naive generalisation.

 

 

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It takes one to identify it 😉

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

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@**dirty.girl** wrote:

I think women have to ask themselves WHY they want to find a man at all? So many women say they are not desperate for sex, so that rules that out. Being bored/lonely - well women of a certain age usually have children, grandchildren and clubs they can involve themselves in. For socio-economic reasons - yes, that's it. The number one priority for a woman is a man's social and economic standing: how many women agree to date an unemployed man? Perhaps if women went back to school and/or found a job, worked harder in life, they could attain a financial and social footing without a man's help: Ya think?

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I think Erica explained very clearly how and why she, personally, "found a man." And  socio-economics didn't come into it at all. As for not dating an unemployed man, any woman who had raised her family and was  enjoying social and  economic independance would be very chary about taking on another dependant - that doesn't mean she wouldn't like a soul mate. 

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I don't believe I ever said that's what Erica was looking for - in fact, I didnt mention Erica at all. She is an isolated case but if most women are honest with themselves - they want a man with money and a good job and if it's a choice between their soul-mate who happens to be unemployed or on permanent disability for a work injury and a CEO with a beautiful house in Mosman, they will kiss their soul-mate good-bye, believe me 🙂