Joannie, have you ever thought of moving to a warmer more tolerant area?  

You can't change those who you say hate you but you can change the type of people you live in the community with.

Recognize anyone?

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_mentality

 

A victim mentality may manifest itself in a range of different behaviors or ways of thinking and talking:

• Blaming others for a situation that one has created oneself or significantly contributed to. Failing or being unwilling to take responsibility for one's own actions or actions to which one has contributed or for taking action to ameliorate the situation.
• Ascribing non-existent negative intentions to other people (similar to paranoia).
• Believing that other people are generally or fundamentally luckier and happier ("Why me?").
• Gaining short-term pleasure from feeling sorry for oneself or eliciting pity from others. Eliciting sympathy by telling exaggerated stories about bad deeds of other people (e.g. during gossip).

People with victim mentality may develop convincing and sophisticated arguments in support of such ideas, which they then use to convince themselves and others of their victim status.

People with victim mentality may also be generally:

• negative, with a general tendency to focus on bad rather than good aspects of a situation. A glass that is half full is considered half empty. A person with a high standard of living complains about not having enough money. A healthy person complains of minor health problems that others would ignore (cf. hypochondriasis).
• self-absorbed: unable or reluctant to consider a situation from the point of view of other people or to "walk a mile in their shoes".
• defensive: In conversation, reading a non-existent negative intention into a neutral question and reacting with a corresponding accusation, hindering the collective solution of problems and instead creating unnecessary conflict.
• categorizing: tending to divide people into "goodies" and "baddies" with no gray zone between them.
• unadventurous: generally unwilling to take risks; exaggerating the importance or likelihood of possible negative outcomes.
• exhibiting learned helplessness: underestimating one's ability or influence in a given situation; feeling powerless.
• stubborn: tending to reject suggestions or constructive criticism from others who listen and care; unable or reluctant to implement the suggestions of others for one's own benefit.
• self-abasing: Putting oneself down even further than others are supposedly doing.

A victim mentality may be reflected by linguistic markers or habits, such as pretending

• not to be able to do something ("I can't..."),
• not to have choices ("I must..."), or
• not to know the answer to a question ("I don't know").

Common problems encountered by people with victim mentality may include:

• Unemployment or dissatisfaction with current employment: Many people really are victims of an unfair socio-economic system or a poor educational background. People with victim mentality are not victims in that real sense. Instead, they may have a good background and skills but miss opportunities because of an exaggerated fear of taking risks or experimenting with something new.
• Obesity or dissatisfaction with current body weight.

95% on this forum fit some or all of those characteristics 🙂

Female Jogger Gets Arrested. Then You Hear What the Police Officer Said to Her

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8fh4VmeuTw

 

Bad cop caught on tape arresting sober driver for DUI - Driver awarded $70,000 3 years later

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dBvFpfiaF8

 

Caught on tape: Cop's ever-changing story turns into lawyer's field day

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CAoSqsvcxGo

 

Judge scolds jury for getting the verdict "wrong"

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CqOPxlxcgyk

 

NH jails amateur lawyer hours after apparent victory

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcBWLfVKuAM

 

GASTON JURY says NOT GUILTY judge angry

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYCnjSV7bGk

 

Cops go berzerk as female motorist

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h6l4DSqxaD4

 

Cop Breaks 84 Yr Old's Neck For Touching Him

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVZSuYWeum4

 

Cops Shoots Unarmed Woman Motorist To Death For Rolling Up Her Car Window

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSPhC916GQM

 

Cop Hits Little Girl With Motorcycle Then Shoots and Kills Angry Dad

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2CicanQ18d8&spfreload=10

 

LAPD chase man EXECUTE him Claim Self Defense

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=159PM7ZKcv0

 

LAPD slam woman's face on concrete then FIST BUMP to celebrate!

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U1SxadKSA_Q

 

2 women in bikinis given body cavity searches on the side of Highway

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gI6VHn5_7os

 

NYPD Police brutality: Killed Unarmed Soldiers during traffic stop

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILkPRlRSEY4

 

Cop Shoots US Navy Veteran In Her Own Backyard

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWtd6pDFWHI

 

Cops Shoot Innocent Man in Bed, No Charges... Oups Wrong Person

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNTVlhvXGFM

 

Cops Taser Man For Trying To Put Out Neighbour's Burning House With Hose

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yS_jziE29uM

 

Dallas Cop Tasers Teen After He Goes Into Diabetic Shock

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QR_iMm3evAw

 

Police Taser a Deaf Woman after she called them for HELP

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QBO4-Be2F4

 

Lynn police block complaints with threats of arrest

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfLwdyMbSHE

 

Lawsuit says cop forced woman to strip

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FcBFzCucNzc

 

Teen Sexually Assaulted, Then Threatened With Jail

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kr-rUhq8nxo

 

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Do you really think spamming the board with 22 YouTube clips...irrelevant to Australia...is going to achieve anything.

Cops Kill Man As His His Wife Watches

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbI5HHz7fJU

 

Do you really think truthing the board with 22 YouTube clips...irrelevant to Australia...is going to achieve anything

 

yes, that truth is all i have to offer. police took everything else. they left me alive so i'm using that life, all i have, to spread the truth any and every way i can.

 

"What began as a fun night out to the movies ended in tragedy for one Oklahoma family after a father was beaten to death by police following a domestic dispute , CNN reported.

The incident, which was caught on video, began when Mrs. Nair Rodriguez got into an altercation with her 19-year-old daughter outside the Moore Warren Theatre in the early hours of February 15 and slapped her. A bystander who witnessed the incident reported the event to police.

The mother-daughter disagreement had upset Mrs. Rodriguez so much that she had bolted for the family car. Her husband, Luis followed her to calm her down when he was intercepted by five police who arrived on the scene. However instead of confronting Nair, five cops took down her innocent husband Luis Rodriguez, beating, pepper spraying and pinning him on the road.

 

are you protecting the police? do they do it for you? otherwise, what do you have against the truth? is truth, or justice, or decency, a concept alien to Australia? why protect sadistic nature? . . . . . .  I don't understand....

 

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and you will never understand joanie because you live in utube fairy land and AMERICA

and you will never understand joanie because you live in utube fairy land and AMERICA

 

ok, i must have imagined all of it, it's a dream, this stuff didn't happen, i'm going to wake up and it was all a bad dream and when i wake up, i won't be in this camper, and will never have been in that holding cell freezing cold and nude, i'll just wake up in my home, everything i worked so hard for will still be there. good to know, but while i'm still in this nightmare, may as well dream of posting yet another fairy land video, don't worry, this is only a dream. it's not really gonna post.

 

Cop Brutally Punches Woman On The Highway- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lo9BDQP5HhE

 

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FGS...no I am not protecting the AMERICAN police...which are the subject of your YouTube BS...and I also find your remark re the police doing it for me offensive...we have only ever heard YOUR side of things...when will you get it through your head that this is AUSTRALIA...speaking for myself only I am fed up with your poor pity me bleating...you are not the only one who has had a hard life, but unlike you most people rise above it...you on the other hand wallow in it.