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on 25-10-2015 07:52 PM
Say you were accused of something you hadn't done and suffered some ramifications for it and you message the accuser letting them know they were wrong and asking why they thought you had done this deed - the accuser reads the message but totally disregards it - neither acknowledges they received the message nor that they were wrong.
What would you think? Would you think they are rude or that they are just to weak to admit their mistake or some other conclusion?
I'm after opinions....
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on 25-10-2015 07:57 PM
That's an interesting one, I'd think as a courtesy a reply was warranted with an explanation for their unfounded accusation. It's always advisable if making any form of accusation of anyone that an accuser has evidence to back up their statements and if not well an apology would be in order.
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on 25-10-2015 08:09 PM
Unfortunately people often take as
Truth third hand information that they
Have heard and like to believe it.
Whether it is true or not can sometimes
Be irrelevant.
Unless you can actually prove that
You are innocent or approach the
Person who started the rumour and
Get them to withdraw the untruth in front of
The third party then I believe you just need
To accept it and move on.
Or you could set a bait as another
Rumour with the third parties prior knowledge
To prove this person is malicious
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25-10-2015 08:13 PM - edited 25-10-2015 08:14 PM
hmm I think not wanting to admit a mistake - or even acknowledge it
yes. opmania I've noticed that about 3rd hand information
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on 25-10-2015 08:22 PM
Some people like to
Have a little drama in
Their otherwise mundane lives
And this often causes gossip and
Innuendo
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on 25-10-2015 08:24 PM
that's true. I've read a few doozies lately ![]()
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on 25-10-2015 08:26 PM
@debra9275 wrote:hmm I think not wanting to admit a mistake - or even acknowledge it
i'm going to give you the green tick because i think you are right.
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on 25-10-2015 08:28 PM
Sometimes you just have to let things go and
Move on because some people really don't
Warrant worrying about
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25-10-2015 08:32 PM - edited 25-10-2015 08:35 PM
pepe I think if someone has chosen to believe something that's not true/right.. then let it go
(PS thanks for the green tick) ![]()
you're right again opmania- I think sometimes 3rd hand information etc. says a lot more about the person spreading the rumours than anyone else - and they are not worth worrying about
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on 25-10-2015 08:48 PM
@*pepe wrote:Say you were accused of something you hadn't done and suffered some ramifications for it and you message the accuser letting them know they were wrong and asking why they thought you had done this deed - the accuser reads the message but totally disregards it - neither acknowledges they received the message nor that they were wrong.
What would you think? Would you think they are rude or that they are just to weak to admit their mistake or some other conclusion?
I'm after opinions....
if they ignored me, i would assume
they just dont care.
things like that happen on social media
all the time.
if the ramifications are serious ie if you
feel you have a defamation case then
you should do something about that.
if its just gossip with no serious
ramifications -
meh