> Hi Jvh,how was your visit with mum today?It must be hard watching some-one you love slowly drift away.
>
> The only one i love and lost was my Gran and it was really quick.She was diagnosed with liver cancer and gone two weeks later.Thankfully we were able to say goodbye.
>
> Hi Miss how'd your weekend go with your neice? hope you guys had fun.
>
> Nef thinking of you had hope all is o.k take care



Hugs Libby yes its been dreadfully difficult.......and im one tough old biddy:)

In regard to the phone.....that you are having a problem with type into google

the model number of the phone and pin number required to unlock it......you just might find something:)

> Afternoon all :-x
>
> Did something silly Friday night went to cut my wrists and my silly little dog didnt let me he kept licking my face and getting in the way, God bless him decided to think rationally and solve problem I was having.
> Am thinking medication isnt working I'm on 225mg Effexor highest dose apparently.
> There I said it , lol.
>
> Feeling better now am giving up the job hunt no point I reckon....


Hugs Sweetie and you poor little bugger......geez is there anything my family can do to help?

Has the Doc tested your thyroid to see if thats ticking over ok.......as if its not functioning ok........that can also cause major depression.

Please message me if i can help at all in anyway:):)

> Good afternoon all!
>
> JVH hugs to you regards your mum. Sadly your hands are tied and you are doing everything you possibly can.
>
> Nef thinking of you too and hoping you are feeling better. I know it is something you just cannot snap out of and it is a debilitating illness to suffer. Remember we are all here for you when you are ready!
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> Hey libby had a great time with my little neice - she is my world! She was quite ill last year and is now off all her meds and going great!
>
> OH is coming home early would've been nice to go out for dinner but we are both on diets - I need to lose 5k and he needs to lose 30 lol!
> Hope there's something good on tv!
>
> Everyone enjoy your evening - and Dame hope you are going well with your exercise regime!


Hugs missnogal........and great news about your sister.......how marvellous to be still following ones dream.

Yes i feel totally powerless with mother......im just praying she is so out of it that she doesnt know whats going on:)

Bet you had a blast with your little niece:)

Hi Nef :-x
Don't do what you were thinking of - it ain't an answer.
Thank you so much for having the good sense to post on this thread:-p and trusting us with your hurt.
I just love your name - where did you get it?
Do you have children?
I know so little about you!
I don't have any but love them all, just the same.
Try the anti-depressant medication - it can't hurt you - and might just make a difference.
Thank you again for not disappearing from the thread - no matter how hard it is for you.

Jvh - best for your mum:-x It's hard for all involved.

Waves to libby, miss, dame, nohousework, and all others, but specially to nef:-x

Sorry - I meant " a different" anti depressant medication for Nef - it has been shown that it can take up to 3- 4 tries to get the right one for each individual - perhaps Efexor isn't right - try others.
:-x from Scatty

Gooooooooood morning and hugs to everyone.

Another magic day on the Goldie........think its going to be in the mids 20s

Neferitti..............thinking of you.........please perhaps get a second opinion.......there are some marvellous doctors around and some not so good ones and yes often it takes a few changes of meds till you get one that works just for you. Do you have anyone that can stay with you and give you some company .........got to be very tough on you:)

Thinking of everyone thats doing it tough at the moment..........lets hope better days ahead for you

Off to Brissie to have a look at a couple of retirement places at Victoria Point........at least its a start.......lots of paperwork to wade through and when and if we decide to take to the legal eagle....retirement living very different to buying a freehold or strata title place.........and something im not entirely comfortable with:(

Of course cant do any moving etc till Mother passes over........will go see her on our return from Brissie:)

BBL

Hi everyone

Nef -Thank goodness you are ok (at least physically) please get to your doctor soonest - or give Beyond Blue a ring - you can't do this alone and you have that lovely little boy depending on you! Thank you for coming in here - and please keep coming back - we care! Your meds are obviously not cutting it and need to be changed soonest!! Forget about job hunting - concentrate on YOU - and everything else will fall into place - you are the most important and that little boy of yours. I am so sorry you are this down - but with the right kind of help things will get better.. and the sooner the better!! Depression is a disease and it's horrible - but it is fixable! (())
hugs nef.

JVH hope you enjoy 'house shopping' - it's good to do lots of homework before you take the plunge anyway. (Also make sure you read all the fine print - as friends of ours just caught something in time which nixed the whole thing for them regards a retirement home).

Scatty you have a lovely way with words - have a great day!!

Hey libby - yes loved having my neice (I don't have kids of my own) - but I caught her bug I think and was up all night sick as a dog. OH was running up and down fetching me ginger ale. Oh what a night!

Waves to dame, chit-chat,dancing, nohousework, purple, and everyone else on here.

BBL to see how you are nef xx

Good afternoon to the thread♥
KERRY I am so sad for your pain, and so pleased your dog was there for you, I have said to you over the years how proud I am of you as you are one tough cookie, you are the head of your little family and you can take it in your stride, you know that you WILL get another job, because you do not throw the towel in, you have the intestinal fortitude to keep trying.
Good luck Kerry and you know Rosie and I are always available to you by email and I think you still have my number.
You take care of you and C and my thoughts are with you.
You will bounce back Kerry♥

Miss sending you a hug cos you are a sweetie♥

Hi everyone,
It is finally a hot summer day here , first one in weeks. So I wanted to share it and smile which is rare for me. Bless you all.