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Gooooooooood morning everyone.......another magic day here on the Goldie:)

Things here still unpleasant so am just going about what i need to do see mother etc..........have a big clean up of my things etc.

There is an old saying blood is thicker than water the OH will defend his daughter 33 years of age until his last breathe no matter her standard of behaviour..........and im starting to realise this sometimes things take a long time to sink in with me:) .

On a brighter note my darling son and his Angel have finally settled on a house in the Wellington Point area........that will settle mid August. They had looked and looked and we had looked at so much rubbish that i was thinking this house is never going to happen:)

Anyways this place came on the market on Monday afternoon they saw it first cab tuesday.......put in an offer and after much pressure on the sellers they finally agreed:).......so lots of excitement with them........both offered and said mum if you need to come and stay with us for a while till you get yourself sorted......you are more than welcome.....of course a couple of mother in law jokes ensured:)

So feeling quite bright about everything.......and not going to let the situation here ruin my bright outlook:)

Thats enough of a rant for me.......time to get tidied for the day go see Mother and come back here and continue the big tip out:)

Hugs Neferitti,

Hoping things are ok with you hun......try and keep your chin up know its dammed hard.......i know this might sound silly but try going for a little walk say early in the am.. every day......doesnt have to be a marathon:....it does help clear the head a little.

And please go see the doctor and see what she or he has to say.....and if you arent happy with them please get another opinion....please:)

Just thought id suggest that:):)

Good Morning Jvh,sounds like your son and his angel,are wonderful people.I hope you take them up on their offer,sounds like you'll get lots of TLC from them and i don't now of anyone who deserves it more than you do right now.:-x

I went on the garden thread yesterday to post a question about one of my plants,and came upon someone who mention Nef in regards to giving her some plants.I left a message for her about how concerned we are for her,and she had seen a message Nef had posted on facebook,she's concerned as well and is going to make contact with her.Am hoping she can help,as i don't now that Nef is actaully reading our post's.Anyway hope i have'nt put my foot in it,time will tell i suppose.
Hugs and waves to Misss,Scatty,Kylie,Dame,Dancing,Purple,Nohousework and everyone else:-x

*pops in to wave at everyone, make them a cuppa and blow big cow kisses*

Yep it surely is a magical day here on the Gold Coast. The sun is shining, the birds are singing........ and the kids have all gone to school]:)

oh, and master 11's choir won a few awards at a competition last night so he is a bit chuffed. I didn't get to hear them as I help out at Brigades on a Thursday night. so how nice was this, because dad was working and I was at Brigades, I was going to have trouble getting Jory home from the comp, but his teacher very generously gave him a lift back. I just thought that this was really nice

Good morning everyone!

JVH I take my hat off to you regards taking note that despite what is happening in your life - the sun does still shine! Yours is such a common dilemma (with step daughters/sons)- never easy. I just hope your OH comes to his senses quickly or it will be his loss! I admire your strength this is a huge step for you. Please also take care of your health - after that swine flu - and now this - stress can take its toll! Power to you jvh - and I hope the visit with your mother goes well. (())

Nef - jvh is right - you can't go on struggling like this - please do get your meds changed/or get a second opinion. I know depression is a long hard road - but it can be helped.

Waves to libby, dame, chit-chat, scatty, kyliemaree, dancing, nohousework, (good luck for the party nohousework!), pjbear, and everyone else on here. Have a great day.

Going vintage shopping today. Looking for a party outfit but all I end up doing is buying cups and saucers for my sister lol! (She collects those pretty, old-fashioned ones).

> Good Morning Jvh,sounds like your son and his angel,are wonderful people.I hope you take them up on their offer,sounds like you'll get lots of TLC from them and i don't now of anyone who deserves it more than you do right now.:-x
>
> I went on the garden thread yesterday to post a question about one of my plants,and came upon someone who mention Nef in regards to giving her some plants.I left a message for her about how concerned we are for her,and she had seen a message Nef had posted on facebook,she's concerned as well and is going to make contact with her.Am hoping she can help,as i don't now that Nef is actaully reading our post's.Anyway hope i have'nt put my foot in it,time will tell i suppose.
> Hugs and waves to Misss,Scatty,Kylie,Dame,Dancing,Purple,Nohousework and everyone else:-x


Hugs Libby and yes im made of very tough stuff my son actually calls me the battleship could have something to do with my size as well lol........at least its not the battleaxe:) well not within my hearing anyways lol

Yes im very worried about Nef very worried about her in fact.....i do hope shes ok and that her friend finds out good news in regard to her:) please let us know:)

Do any of the friends in Facebook actually live near her....i do believe she is in the Townsville area i think:)

> *pops in to wave at everyone, make them a cuppa and blow big cow kisses*
>
> Yep it surely is a magical day here on the Gold Coast. The sun is shining, the birds are singing........ and the kids have all gone to school]:)
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> oh, and master 11's choir won a few awards at a competition last night so he is a bit chuffed. I didn't get to hear them as I help out at Brigades on a Thursday night. so how nice was this, because dad was working and I was at Brigades, I was going to have trouble getting Jory home from the comp, but his teacher very generously gave him a lift back. I just thought that this was really nice


Hi Kylie and thats marvellous news about the little one and the result at choir........and the teacher offering him a lift is marvellous.......its the little things that make a massive difference:)

Good morning to the thread♥
So much happening with people on the thread, I wish you all just a bit of sunshine with the curves life throws at different stages!
I am a happy lil vegemite this morning as I have been out early to see a couple of my seniors and they were quite well, and had a cuppa and mr made some pies and cakes for me to drop off which were well received, must admit I had a bit much cake lol but will no doubt exercise it off ( yeah right lol)
Take care everyone and God bless♥

> Good morning everyone!
>
> JVH I take my hat off to you regards taking note that despite what is happening in your life - the sun does still shine! Yours is such a common dilemma (with step daughters/sons)- never easy. I just hope your OH comes to his senses quickly or it will be his loss! I admire your strength this is a huge step for you. Please also take care of your health - after that swine flu - and now this - stress can take its toll! Power to you jvh - and I hope the visit with your mother goes well. (())
>
> Nef - jvh is right - you can't go on struggling like this - please do get your meds changed/or get a second opinion. I know depression is a long hard road - but it can be helped.
>
> Waves to libby, dame, chit-chat, scatty, kyliemaree, dancing, nohousework, (good luck for the party nohousework!), pjbear, and everyone else on here. Have a great day.
>
> Going vintage shopping today. Looking for a party outfit but all I end up doing is buying cups and saucers for my sister lol! (She collects those pretty, old-fashioned ones).


Hi Missnogal and yes i understand what you are saying re step children step adults.........i just want peace and quite and to live a quiet life as well.......and in time i will, nothing has beaten me to date:)

Yes naturally the OH is an exlempary parent.......totally cant fault him with the way he looks after and protects his kids.......but like i said the issue is the last one who is 33 and has never adjusted to her Mumma passing over.....all of which i can understand.

However in saying that she is into big mind games as well......or would at least like to think she is an expert in that area:)

Thems the breaks........am going to go out and grab lunch with my aged friend and the old boy can prepare his own lunch:):)