Hi everyone!

JVH I do hope your friend's tests go as well as possible for her! Sounds like she is coping atm and is lucky to have you there for her. Glad you had a time out while OH played golf!

Hiya Bella nice of you to pop in!

Kezza I think you are a stronger person than you give yourself credit for, especially after all the hard knocks life has sent you - you always manage to bounce back and try again! I just hope there will be no more knocks!

Hiya pjbear how brave (the snake) - well done! Hope the weather not too hot your way!

Hi dame hope you have settled in after your lovely hols.

Hi travelling purple, scatty, libby (where are ya?) lilly, and everyone who pops in.

Sweet dreams everyone!

pj*bear
Community Member
Kezza please think carefully about the ECT..its not the best thing really...and yes i agree with missy you are a much stronger person than you give yourself credit for..
missy , i dont think I was that brave,I think it was adrenaline and I had not realized what happened til after it happened,,,
jen how did your friend go today ?
hi bella and dame and purpsand scatyy (where are you? and libby (where are you?)and dancing and all the newbies that have popped in...
well went out for lunch today with my mum and aunty,, it was mums bday,,LOL I kept reminding her even though she is 59 today she is in her 60th year...she loved the card and aalso her pressie she wanted money so thats what I gave her!
bought a couple of SS gifts and now I am shattered..
came home and my wheelchair snagged the curtain and the whole lot came down,, I was very annoyed, then I went to try put them back up usig my long grab stick and the rod came down and hit me in the face, I was hot ,bothered, tired had a headache my back was aching, and I lost the plot.. then I knocked my arm and its really swollen...and sore...and now I am going to have a chocky milk and a coupla panadol,,,not a bad day but not a real good one either,, but hey it makes for an exciting life

missy are you going to bed already sweet dreams at 6.30pm

well now I am gonna figure out what to have for tea!
A home without a cat is just a house!!

good luck with everything today jen, big{{{hugs}}} to you and your friend!


Thank you 🙂

Good Afternoon,

Pj I dont have a daughter wish I did, lol. I have 1 son and chihuahua son is home sick from school tummy bug, lol.
My Austar bill is usually $160.00 + a month we have 2 boxes, a Mystar and all the channels far too expensive we could get out an about with that money instead of sitting in front of the box.
I got my nails done today a glittery blue they look fantabulous the lady only charged me $25 she's great I've been telling her what happened in my childhood and she reckons I need counselling as something similiar happened to her mum its terrible how people do these things to kids it effects us kids for years laying dorment and striking like a cobra. Nail lady reckons I need grief couselling as well. some days are better than others love pay days, pmsl.
Toni who does my nails reckons ECT eletric shock therapy helped a friend of hers I will ask my doc on Friday if they do it up here.
JV good on ya for losing the weight me I lose 50kg and put on 80kg its all in my mind, lol. I'm a all or nothing girl I exercise for 5 hours a day for 3 months than give up...
Miss u truely r a positive person and u have given me tremoiundous encouragement along with others here. you know some people say she hasnt got it all that bad I raised 6 kids on my own with no welfare etc etc and I say yeah well u tell me how wonderful u r and I'll tell ya how much I've had to put up with in my life to get were I am...

Cya's :-x



Hi girl hope you and the little Master of the house are doing just great:)

Hi everyone!

JVH I do hope your friend's tests go as well as possible for her! Sounds like she is coping atm and is lucky to have you there for her. Glad you had a time out while OH played golf!

Hiya Bella nice of you to pop in!

Kezza I think you are a stronger person than you give yourself credit for, especially after all the hard knocks life has sent you - you always manage to bounce back and try again! I just hope there will be no more knocks!

Hiya pjbear how brave (the snake) - well done! Hope the weather not too hot your way!

Hi dame hope you have settled in after your lovely hols.

Hi travelling purple, scatty, libby (where are ya?) lilly, and everyone who pops in.

Sweet dreams everyone!


Thank you Miss been a really really full on day:)

Good Afternoon,

Pj I dont have a daughter wish I did, lol. I have 1 son and chihuahua son is home sick from school tummy bug, lol.
My Austar bill is usually $160.00 + a month we have 2 boxes, a Mystar and all the channels far too expensive we could get out an about with that money instead of sitting in front of the box.
I got my nails done today a glittery blue they look fantabulous the lady only charged me $25 she's great I've been telling her what happened in my childhood and she reckons I need counselling as something similiar happened to her mum its terrible how people do these things to kids it effects us kids for years laying dorment and striking like a cobra. Nail lady reckons I need grief couselling as well. some days are better than others love pay days, pmsl.
Toni who does my nails reckons ECT eletric shock therapy helped a friend of hers I will ask my doc on Friday if they do it up here.
JV good on ya for losing the weight me I lose 50kg and put on 80kg its all in my mind, lol. I'm a all or nothing girl I exercise for 5 hours a day for 3 months than give up...
Miss u truely r a positive person and u have given me tremoiundous encouragement along with others here. you know some people say she hasnt got it all that bad I raised 6 kids on my own with no welfare etc etc and I say yeah well u tell me how wonderful u r and I'll tell ya how much I've had to put up with in my life to get were I am...

Cya's :-x



Hi Kezza please please be careful with ECT there were many problems many many years ago with that type of treatment:(

Kezza please think carefully about the ECT..its not the best thing really...and yes i agree with missy you are a much stronger person than you give yourself credit for..
missy , i dont think I was that brave,I think it was adrenaline and I had not realized what happened til after it happened,,,
jen how did your friend go today ?
hi bella and dame and purpsand scatyy (where are you? and libby (where are you?)and dancing and all the newbies that have popped in...
well went out for lunch today with my mum and aunty,, it was mums bday,,LOL I kept reminding her even though she is 59 today she is in her 60th year...she loved the card and aalso her pressie she wanted money so thats what I gave her!
bought a couple of SS gifts and now I am shattered..
came home and my wheelchair snagged the curtain and the whole lot came down,, I was very annoyed, then I went to try put them back up usig my long grab stick and the rod came down and hit me in the face, I was hot ,bothered, tired had a headache my back was aching, and I lost the plot.. then I knocked my arm and its really swollen...and sore...and now I am going to have a chocky milk and a coupla panadol,,,not a bad day but not a real good one either,, but hey it makes for an exciting life

missy are you going to bed already sweet dreams at 6.30pm

well now I am gonna figure out what to have for tea!



Geez Bear not a good day for you ...........some days one wishes one could chuck a tantie just like a kid:)

Hi and good evening all

Been a really full on day.......and picked Chrissy up after her test........she ended up having both the gastroscope and the endscope things done.........well the cancer is all on board in the tummy.....seems like it started at the top of the tummy according to the doctor and has of course already spread to the liver...she has 6 spots on there.

Has all been a bit much for her to take in anyways she came home for a little while had a shower and rest..but has insisted on going home.......

There is so much to do and help her sort out.......i have finally managed to squeeze her brothers number out of her.....he lives in Ireland........

Monday she goes to the doctor and i will be going with her.......as pallative care needs to be discussed and what plans etc the doctor thinks should be in place.......She is flatly refusing all treatment.....and with it being so advanced in the liver and stomach.......possibly a very wise and brave decision on her part. Maybe down the track she may have some pallative radiation ........she continues to crack hardy.....but think she is very frightened........horrible situation for anyone to be in:(

Posting on the go guys but thought I'd drop by and say hi:-x

Have a great day 🙂



And you have a fabulous one as well")

pj*bear
Community Member
jen,, you are such a good friend and you have a huge heart.....hope that you are okay dealing with all this so soon after your mum...please take some time out for yourself,


well t looks like my wrist may be fractured, have to have an exray tomorrow...the xray place had shut for the night, so have to have a compression bandage on,grrrrr!
A home without a cat is just a house!!