Being excluded from a group is not bullying......but then you knew that

Not according to one of the C&P's.

so if your out with some friends having dinner at some restaurant you wouldn't have an issue with a stranger sitting at your table and joining you, yer right :^O

And again you miss the point....not surprised by that

Being excluded from a group is not bullying......but then you knew that

No, it was specifically mentioned in one of Az's posts and I think she got that info from info supplied by the OP.

So, if not being excluded from a group, then what exactly is one being excluded from in those definitions?

so if your out with some friends having dinner at some restaurant you wouldn't have an issue with a stranger sitting at your table and joining you, yer right :^O

It depends, 1) are they good looking? and 2) are they gonna pay the bill? LOL

that could have been done without id'ing her. She would know who you meant.

That maybe so.....................but I wanted to make it clear it was an unwanted message..................call me a bully.

That maybe so.....................but I wanted to make it clear it was an unwanted message..................call me a bully.

no need...

*makes a note never to PM flashie*

No, it was specifically mentioned in one of Az's posts and I think she got that info from info supplied by the OP.

Pardon??? I have no information supplied by Iza........

that could have been done without id'ing her. She would know who you meant.

Nah, it's OK, I even wrote in the message that I fully expected that she would "share it around" (but thanks)

I just didn't want to intrude in their thread by saying it, and I didn't know where else to put it, and as it was Flashie who quite bluntly inferred the 0 ID's were mine, I PM'd her.

It's all good, I knew better than to expect discression.

:^O  you're safe Joe, she's a very nice person