Yep that something I will do 

It's not a terribly good idea to leave Feedback - until the item has arrived safely - and is as described.

Did the seller provide a tracking number for such an item. ???

Why on earth have you already left a neutral feedback when the ETA hasn't even passed yet ????

I did that to try get his attention I thought if I left feedback earlier about him not answering me for a few days he would see that and try get in contact 

No

The OP has already left feedback... I would have waited too, but sometimes when people are anxious and the seller does not communicate they go and leave feedback.

The OP also said the item has not even been marked as sent, so definitely no tracking number.

Think these days - packages have automatic tracking - where's the tracking. 

And why have you already left Feedback ??

I left feedback trying to get his attention, I thought maybe there was a reason eh couldnt see the messages to left it saying he hadnt responded to me in days hoping he would try get in contact

Please don't leave Feedback - until you have received an item - checked the item - are happy with the item & are overall happy with the experience.

This ' parcel ' should have tracking automatically.

If this tracking were to be a thing any idea where it would be?