No I did not pay thru Paypal, but with my Visa debit. Would I be able to get them to reverse the charge?

It's coming by boat. Still not a lot of boats sailing yet.

This is what it used to say next to 'delivery info' up until a few days ago.

No.

I don't buy International and I certainly would never accept surface mail.

You are probably in a small minority who think that surface mail is a good option in this day and age. especially through eBay, who have specific, tight guidelines for buying

Nexa, can you go back into your purchase history and change the dates in the search option.  

I think your purchase has been archived, that’s all. 
Once you find it, you should be able to select to open an Item Not Received case there. 

If all else fails, you can make a claim at the bank…. But make that your final option.  

Also, when speaking to live chat, have the item number handy, so they can reference the sale.  You could probably search for it using the item number too (I wonder 🤔) 

Estimated date of delivery changes, due to the current world crisis. (Pandemic). Short staffed, closed businesses, changed postal restrictions and sanctions. Etc. 

Canada did have some restrictions to Australia and from Australia, not sure if they’ve been lifted or not. I know Ireland are still not accepting from, or posting to Australia. 

Also, you might have just received an email from eBay about the new changes to the eBay User agreement. Check the personal email account you have attached to your eBay account.

It has a reply email you can contact. Try that, too 😉

ebay@reply2.ebay.com.au