If you bare going to yell, do it to yourself.  Suggest you read how Ebay purchasing works.  It will make your life easier and without yelling

All you are doing is yelling at people who have nothing to do with eBays working. So, in effect we won't be re-funding you and no we won't be giving you a delivery date till you learn what the hell you are doing and get some manners. Also, the members who have tried to help you and have been very courteous in their replies, so try and sooth your bad temper.