....if you are happy with the underbidder you can send them a 'second chance' offer

But I've received so much good advice and even received a message from eBay customer service after they saw this post.

 

Wow....that doesn't happen very often!!


@ausjosh wrote:



Considering I have messages from both sellers admitting they lied about why they retracted their bids, is there anything I can do about this? Not sure what resolution I would want from this, but I feel quite disappointed by eBay's system. Is there any point contacting eBay support or should I just move on?


Not sure you can actually say the second bidder lied as such,  yes they most probably would have being happy with the original bid amount.   Bad with the highest bidder dropping out, to a reasonable person that would look fishy,  it even looks like the seller is bumping it up, and than dropping out,  not saying you did,  but to another bidder it does look that way, and is a common practice.

 

And there is no real option for cancelling a bid because you think the seller is playing games, so the best approach is use bid wrong amount.

 

Glad they came back in,  but you have to consider their view on the world as well


@ausjosh wrote:

Hi all, thanks for your messages! Yes currently the item in question is back up to $640 (AUD) with 10 hours to go.
The strangest thing happened... I hadn't got around to blocking the two bidders yet, and the second bidder messaged me to say that the other seller wouldn't ship overseas to them so they came back and bid on my item again. I messaged them to ensure that they only bid as high as they are committed to paying, so hopefully they listen.

In an even more annoying twist of fate... I am selling two other items on eBay, and one of them just closed. Immediately after winning the auction, the winning bidder sent me a message saying "Hello, can we cancel this transaction?".

Is this normal for eBay? This is such a terrible selling experience.

 


That is good (though unexpected) news about the second bidder. I always felt they dipped out because they got alarmed by all the cancelled bids of that first top bidder and wondered if they had themselves gone too high. Maybe after the price went down to $460, they felt it was an honest auction again.

 

Good luck with your auction and hopefully the top bidder pays up.

 

As for your question as to whether it is normal for buyers to ask for a cancellation. Don't know about normal but it happens. It would be interesting to know if it is more common for buy it now items or in auctions. 

I think there is also a perception out there by some that buyers are entitled to cancel within an hour of a sale.

have this happen all the time to me. I just don't offer auctions anymore as it's an abused feature of ebay by **bleep**py buyers.

A year and a half post-relevant.

 

have this happen all the time to me. I just don't offer auctions anymore

 

Which is it? Your statement is contradictory