Yeah, I'm sorry but I just won't wear a buyer asking for more than 4 days to pay. They really should be paying within 1 day, at the latest. You are all entitled to handle it as you wish, but for me, if you don't have the dosh, don't bid on my stuff. I'm old and I don't have enough time left to be waiting on you. Bad enough that I have to wait ANOTHER 4 days after I start a NPB case. It should be instant kick and ban for a month.

its great to hear from all sides...I have decided i did what i thought was the best at that time..I have also learnt from my experience and will take a few extra precautuions from now on to try not to get caught in a simular trap..Even though i  i have been selling a while now i must say there is still room for inprovement in many ways but i am a happy seller and do enjoy the experience of knowing through positive feedback and emails ect that i have made quite a few buyers very happy with thier purchases over this time..Makes me feel good to know that going the extra length at times is very appreciated by some...Thanks for you and  everybodys else's opinions in relation to my question..