Re: My turn to Vent

grandmoon · ‎29-03-2013

I have been with my OH since 1988. He retired last October since then his sister has been trying to talk him into going home to live. He has been in Australia since 1971. He doesn't want to go home to live. His sister wants him to buy a unit at home for her to live in Oh boy the emotion blackmail she has been applying is unbeliveable. I am so angry as the unit she wants him to buy her will take all his super and in buy it it will effect his pension. She still wants him to buy it for her.

He is now saying that it means he will have to go back to work again.

twyngwyn · ‎29-03-2013

where is 'home'? What is the culture?

sandym3369 · ‎29-03-2013

Who does she think she is. Sounds like it is just all about her. Time to tell her straight not hogging back home. And not buying her somewhere to live . Why should you suffer in life for her.

purple_haize · ‎29-03-2013

He should tell her firmly NO.

Where is home?

kengillard · ‎29-03-2013

agree with all the above......need some more info?

grandmoon · ‎29-03-2013

Home is Croatia

azureline** · ‎29-03-2013

Since you are a couple, won't this also affect you and your pension? and your security?

I think she is very rude.

purple.cow · ‎29-03-2013

Home is Croatia

That bit of info speaks volumes 😞

purple_haize · ‎29-03-2013

Hasnt she got a husband?

I dont know much about Croatia, but is it something that is generally done over there, what she is wanting?

grandmoon · ‎29-03-2013

Since you are a couple, won't this also affect you and your pension? and your security?

I think she is very rude.

I have a superannuation pension so it won't effect mine. I have been argueing with him about her POOR ME attitude.