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on 09-01-2014 12:58 PM
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on 09-01-2014 01:05 PM
LOL I guess I could understand my husband looking rather perplexed if I told him I had an escape fund. I think "emergency fund" covers all situations.
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on 09-01-2014 01:39 PM
@nicnacs_4u wrote:
@imastawka wrote:My mother taught me over 50 years ago, to always have
your own money and never to have it all in a joint account.
My sister didn't heed that advice and when her husband died
she could not access the joint account, because the bank froze
the account for months.
May I ask why the bank froze their account?.When my OH passed away all our money was in both names and I had no trouble accessing it straight away.
That was back in the 70's. Banks were a whole other animal back then. I don't
know all the why's and whatnot, but that's what they did.
Re banks in the 70's - we could only get a partial mortgage for our house "because
of the age of the house". It was built in 1925. They made us take out a personal
loan for the remainder. And, no, in those days,you couldn't go elsewhere. You had
to have a savings track record with that particular bank. No mortgage broker in those days
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on 09-01-2014 08:10 PM
Why the need only for women to have an escape fund?
Known lots of blokes who've been totally shafted and left flat broke and destitute when their woman "escapes" to her new life she's been setting up with someone new.
Yes, I have an opinion. No you don't have to agree with it. Yes I do have a right to it.
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on 09-01-2014 08:12 PM
Well, I guess it applies to guys as well.
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on 09-01-2014 08:15 PM
AND before anyone says "you should have been through what I went through" believe me I have and proberbly a hell of a lot worse!
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on 09-01-2014 08:55 PM
@carls*world wrote:Why the need only for women to have an escape fund?
Known lots of blokes who've been totally shafted and left flat broke and destitute when their woman "escapes" to her new life she's been setting up with someone new.
lol it does say in the OP, Carl:
"Men’s secret stash was bigger with anywhere between $30,000 and $37,700, while women kept $22,300 in theirs."
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on 09-01-2014 08:59 PM
Yes it does. My response was more to some of the comments posted which, in my view, biased toward only women being hard done by in break ups, and needing the "escape fund".
Yes, I have an opinion. No you don't have to agree with it. Yes I do have a right to it.
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on 09-01-2014 09:01 PM
Not that I need bother anyway. Lost all mine over many years of stupidity. Now what's mine is mine, and nothing leftover to stash anyway ![]()
Yes, I have an opinion. No you don't have to agree with it. Yes I do have a right to it.
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on 09-01-2014 09:12 PM
@carls*world wrote:Not that I need bother anyway. Lost all mine over many years of stupidity. Now what's mine is mine, and nothing leftover to stash anyway
you still have your cats don't you ![]()