I too wouldnt like it if anyone felt unwelcome to share their story or thoughts here..

I think I understand what greencat means by fraud..I guess its a question of degree.
I dont suffer from depression, but have had experience of quite desperate grief..I definitely was depressed, but time and experience and being courageous has helped me.

I dont feel better or more worthy than anyone else because I have been able to cope. Not for one minute.

I have learnt we are all on our own journeys..most importantly, I learnt that we are doing the best we can-even if,at times we can feel weak or as if we are standing still..

I am quite consciously trying to bring more kindness to interactions each day.