@bluecat*dancing wrote:You are not allowed to call a spade a spade. Perhaps before a post can be posted a message such as "Are you sure you want to post that?" would help.
Spontaneity is stifled. It can take me ages to compose a reply so as not to appear hostile interpersonal, off topic etc that by the time it is ready, the conversation has moved on so my post no longer has relevance or the thread gets locked while I am still writing.
You don't always have to call a spade a spade. You can call it a digging implement and everybody still knows what you mean. 
most ppl anyway...
