bright,i'm so sorry,apparently a couple of posts that i responded to were removed. my reponse was NOT to you in any way,it was to a post stating how gullible people are who use the available sites that are charge a fee. 

i don't think i can say more than that without getting in trouble.

i mean NO OFFENSE to you and your search,and that's why i talked about my FIL. i encourage you,as long as it isn't costly,and i think you have some great resources! 

as for the person who commented..well,you know how it is,with disappearing posts and people. it happens.

honestly,if i could help,i would! i can look at dad's index,maybe something could help? we'd have to see if the sites are still "live",he died 7 years ago.