Evening ladies.

Nics, I can't believe it's been four years.  A sad day for you.  If you would like, can you get someone to come and arrange it for you?  It's too hard for you still at this stage.  Nothing to stop you from keeping some treasures and the oppie would be happy with the rest.

There is no right or wrong but maybe the longer you leave it the harder it will be.

Flashie, you are off the hook with the bike riding.  It is a shame it can't be helped.