*silver*lining* (80)
I know how it is to have your mind go thru all these scenarios Amy and in the end it was my mum who decided for herself.
We were preparing for her to come home and go into a rehab facility and the next thing we new she had slipped away.
It was a shock to all of us but I started to think maybe mum wasnt prepared to live a life where she wasnt able to do all the things she could do before. Her illness was sudden but did not go on for this amount of time.
Your mum is holding on Amy, its been a long while and although she has those sad times and looks sad she must want to stay. The body has a way of healing and time is what it needs as I know you have been told many times. She's hanging in there and there is progress. She wants to be here.
I know those sad looks and they are heart breaking but I believe if she really wanted to go she would.
Chin up and lots of love to you.
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*binks* (Private)
Ignore (3228 of 4577) 11/03/2008 22:48 Report
Amy your aunt is right.. you will drive yourself crazy thinking about this... you know.. your mum and dad may have talked about this sort of thing happening and them not wanting to be like your mum is currently..at the time of talking about they were probably thinking that if ever this happened when they were much older, having seen their grandies grown up...and lived life to the fullest.... your mum has sooo much more to look forward to... and when she is all better she will thankyou all for what you all have been doing.... she has come soooo far already... yep and there is still a long way to go.... your mum is probably more sad at the fact of things not moving along as quickly as she wants just like you all are..... not angry at any of you at all..
{{{{HUGS}}}}} ♥♥♥
I know how it is to have your mind go thru all these scenarios Amy and in the end it was my mum who decided for herself.
We were preparing for her to come home and go into a rehab facility and the next thing we new she had slipped away.
It was a shock to all of us but I started to think maybe mum wasnt prepared to live a life where she wasnt able to do all the things she could do before. Her illness was sudden but did not go on for this amount of time.
Your mum is holding on Amy, its been a long while and although she has those sad times and looks sad she must want to stay. The body has a way of healing and time is what it needs as I know you have been told many times. She's hanging in there and there is progress. She wants to be here.
I know those sad looks and they are heart breaking but I believe if she really wanted to go she would.
Chin up and lots of love to you.
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*binks* (Private)
Ignore (3228 of 4577) 11/03/2008 22:48 Report
Amy your aunt is right.. you will drive yourself crazy thinking about this... you know.. your mum and dad may have talked about this sort of thing happening and them not wanting to be like your mum is currently..at the time of talking about they were probably thinking that if ever this happened when they were much older, having seen their grandies grown up...and lived life to the fullest.... your mum has sooo much more to look forward to... and when she is all better she will thankyou all for what you all have been doing.... she has come soooo far already... yep and there is still a long way to go.... your mum is probably more sad at the fact of things not moving along as quickly as she wants just like you all are..... not angry at any of you at all..
{{{{HUGS}}}}} ♥♥♥
