I have had the same experience with hubby, most of the staff are happy to let me look after him, but, you get the odd one that gets stroppy with me. I had to voice my disapproval to a young ER Doctor that insisted on giving hubby a saline drip. He hung the drip, hubby's Specialist came in 10 minutesd later and took it out, replaced it with a more appropriate one.

Hang in there Tan, you will all be home soon.