jvh -:_|I hope your Mum has a peaceful passing, as mine did. I knew it was near and had been sitting by her bedside holding her hand, and then I went out into my room and called a friend to tell her it would be soon, and then I went back in and mum was gone.
My first reaction was relief that it was over - and I felt sooo guilty.:-(
But in the end I realized that she was ready to go, and it was a relief to her too.:-)
Even though you know it's coming you'll deny it, and don't feel guilty if you don't grieve at first - you've probably done lot's of grieving in the last few months (already).
Please be thankful it's over for both of you, I'm sure your mum would agree. No guilt - you've done your best:-x
So pleased you have family around you at this time.:-)
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