hey jv , i posted the confused guy icon, because i am trying to understand how sometimes posters can be unkind in some threads and nice in others... had some not so nice stuff said to me yesterday.... i was really at hurt at one comment... I wish people would understand that, I have had a hell of a life everything from being abused as a child, to being left at a hospital when i was really sick, when i was a kid to be told that you were not wanted anymore, down to having severe physical disabilities, and also to be told that because of these my life is considerably shortened..and I dont need to be told that i should be greatful to my mother for this... more than likely its a case of not really understanding or knowing the full story,, I dont expect people to know how it feels to be abused, and to struggle everyday against constant pain esp if they have had a relatively good childhood that was full of love and encouragement and support... its hard and i wish people understood that... and its not in here thats the problem..its some of the other threads... its hot again here in adelaide,, but then again I have been told I am weak if i cant handle a heatwave..LOL!! 39 today and its overcast and muggy as!!!! and we have 41 tomorrow... hope everyone is okay and if its hot where you are then try stay cool and dont get sunburn, keep up them fluids. thanx for letting me vebt in here,, at least in this thread most of the time I can feel safe and dont get accused of whingeing...when i do get a bit upset... will contact the others a bit later today.. take care my friends!!

You know Bear there is a saying one has to walk the same path to try and understand and im sure that would be the same for anyone that was abused as a child.

Personally so foreign to me.....i had a marvellous Dadda and Pop and uncles who doted on me as i was the only girl. Can never get my head around people that get their whatevers from imposing their will size etc over a tiny child.....im sure so abhorent to anyone and i do believe that the penalities are not nearly strong enough


But then alas this country is stuffed by politically correct do gooders:(

Im off the soap box:)