hi all

Annoyed at son today he claims my friends dog peed on his bed and has been sleeping on the couch. His bed atm is a mattress on the floor as he has destroyed bed number 3 he has been in a bed since 2 an a half and has wrecked 3 beds 2 were king singles he has also put wholes in his innerspring mattress.
Well I have told him to put disenfectant on the pee and flip the mattress he reckons it still smells.
I have earmarked $120 for textbooks for Uni which would have cost me $350 do u reckon I should give up this money to buy him another bed,
I dont reckon so I have asked some friends if they can help me out and I'm going to ring the church in t he morning. This always happens to me I have money earmarked for me and he breaks something and I have to replace it not this time he can get stuffed he can sleep under the tree for all I care I am well and truely over him. He's in his room cleaning up the brothel I cleaned it up for him 2 weeks ago next day he pulled out all his plastic soldiers and things outa his wardrobe and it was a brothel again I give up I wanna throw the towel in I cant do it anymore I just wanna be by myself with the dog and cat. I am over this mother bs I have no help from any1 no respite nothing its just not fair I should have adopted him at birth!!