Thanks for your reply Martini - the problem for me is that there will be no rules. And there is no facilities at all for feeding/changing a nappy, or anything else associated with babies.  She did bring the child in a month ago, changed her nappy on the desk and then just dropped the dirty one in the wasterpaper bin - where it stayed for 3 days.  X-(

And I have no intention of giving the child any attention at all - IMO it should not be there.